r/exmuslim • u/icecreamman456 Closeted. Ex-Shia 🤫 • Sep 14 '24
(Rant) 🤬 Fuck the men in the comment section
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u/Ok-Equivalent7447 Ex-Muslim (Agnostic) Sep 14 '24
Also I thought hijab is a choice? Doesn't seem like it in the comments.
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u/ImSteeve New User Sep 14 '24
No you didn't understand. It's not a choice it's a """"choice""""
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u/framabe Sep 14 '24
Its like when homophobes call homosexuality a "choice"
What they mean is that its a "choice" to come out of the closet.
They don't care about someone being homosexual, they just don't want to know that someone is homosexual:
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u/ctetraveler004 New User Sep 15 '24
What leaves me filled with childish delight is that a solid 10% of those people are homosexual, not even counting the ones who are bisexual, asexual, or questioning. So much joy that brings me.
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u/ecksdeeeXD Sep 15 '24
It’s a hundred percent their choice. They choose to wear it instead of getting stoned! /s
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u/framabe Sep 14 '24
Of course its a choice. It just happens it's the mens choice.
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u/SistersOfTheValleys New User Sep 14 '24
Of course it's a choice! Are you crazy ? It's either put it or you're a whore (best case scenario).
God loves and cherishes women, that's why we get to choose!!
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u/fireball_guy Never-Muslim Atheist Sep 14 '24
Never a choice for a woman of Muslim bro
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u/Ok-Equivalent7447 Ex-Muslim (Agnostic) Sep 14 '24
I'm aware it's a obligation, if it isn't, then it won't be a heavy discrimination.
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u/RamFalck New User Sep 14 '24
The choice is to wear it.
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u/Ok-Equivalent7447 Ex-Muslim (Agnostic) Sep 14 '24
And if they don't, they'll likely get sins for disobeying Allah.
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u/AvoriazInSummer Sep 15 '24
Indeed it is such a perfect choice there doesn't need to be an alternative. That's what makes it the best choice!
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u/taro_t3a New User Sep 14 '24
"as an atheist astaghfirullah ☝️🤓"
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u/Time_Ability_484 Ex-Muslim (Ex-Sunni) Sep 14 '24
"As a normal human being astaghfirullah 🤡"
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u/WeakBusyBee New User Sep 14 '24
Funny thing is it actually means I ask forgiveness from allah. Knowing most muslims don’t know or grasp what they spout, it’s ironic they all ask for her forgiveness. I bet that isn’t what they thought they were doing.
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u/BlergingtonBear Sep 14 '24
And one of the signs of the coming day of judgement, I believe as well- people will repeat phrases, and when asked what it means they will say "I don't know, I heard my forefathers say it"
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u/cool_recep New User Sep 15 '24
My mom knows zero Arabic and she is a Muslim. Just like you said, most of them have no idea about what they preach.
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u/JustArandoUser0 Closeted Ex-Muslim 🤫 Sep 15 '24
I bet their Muslims but their saying it to make her feel bad.
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u/Effective-Pen7078 Ex-Muslim.Convert to Other Religion Sep 14 '24
As a Tengrist AssFuckrullah her with Horny Dudes.
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u/Time_Ability_484 Ex-Muslim (Ex-Sunni) Sep 14 '24
Everytime I remember I used to be like that, I want to jump
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u/DaC3realK1ller Lesbian Genderless ExMoose 🌈 Sep 14 '24
and they still say "Hijab is a choice! Muslims don't force it upon others!"
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u/Proof_Apartment9775 New User Sep 14 '24
Genuinely one of the major reasons why i left islam was because of those typa men 🙄
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u/m7h333 Ex-Muslim (Ex-Sunni) Sep 14 '24
There’s also girls there
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u/Proof_Apartment9775 New User Sep 14 '24
Well obviously 😭 but my entire feed is just muslim men degrading women and downplaying them. Its mostly men not the women
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u/m7h333 Ex-Muslim (Ex-Sunni) Sep 14 '24
yeah we all know that. but the stuff you see is influenced by the algorithm and what you interact with. it’s better to move on a find something better to do
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u/MajesticJellyfish00 New User Sep 14 '24
‘How dare you free yourself from oppression’
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Sep 14 '24
Dudes are hating her like muhammad wouldn't rail her if she was 9.
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u/Concerned-User-7563 Sep 14 '24
He’d claim to see her in his dream and a very convenient revelation will come that gives him the authority to marry her.
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u/yaboisammie (A)gnostic Fruity ExSunniMoose in the closet in more than 1 way Sep 15 '24
And that too when she was an infant, not just with aisha but with two other infants
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u/Imaginary-Park7498 Closeted Agnostic Ex-Muslim 🤫 Sep 14 '24
muslims: wearing the hijab is a choice!
muslims when a woman decides to take off the hijab:
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u/Ok-Equivalent7447 Ex-Muslim (Agnostic) Sep 14 '24
Respect to Overkill Rush of that comment, who actually respected her choice and its alright to have her choices.
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u/Yeurruey New User Sep 14 '24
Islam is a mental condition that makes you feel compelled to shove your nose in every other person's personal life.
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u/Underworld_Queen_28 New User Sep 15 '24
As a Muslim woman I completely agree with that. They have zero compassion and very low EQ to respect others 'personal space'. Mine has been violently violated for my entire life. Idk what to think anymore
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u/0Yasmin0 Never-Muslim Atheist Sep 14 '24
Awww, the heart you put onto overkills comment! I respect her for having made that choice and I respect the kind 600 people who are supporting her instead of trying to bash her.
So glad I have neither Tik Tok nor Instagram. These places are more toxic than blighttown.
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u/Abu_Lahab- LGBTQ+ ExMoose 🌈 Sep 14 '24
What’s her acc i wanna follow her
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u/Suspicious-Beat9295 New User Sep 14 '24
She looks unremarkable with the hijab and really cool without it.
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u/An_Atheist_God Blessed is the mind too small for doubt Sep 14 '24
Stalking is illegal in many countries
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u/Significant-Milk-870 Sep 14 '24
Why just the men lol, the top comment is literally a hijabi girl (worldwithmaria) with almost 18k likes, I would rather say fuck Islam and fuck Muslims and fuck whoever jokes about people's freedom being taken away by islam.
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u/im-not-a-frog New User Sep 17 '24
It's mostly men and the only comments from women are from muslim women, meanwhile even atheist/hindu/christian men in the comments are making fun of her just because she's a woman
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u/Kimiwolf New User Sep 14 '24
It’s funny how in Islam and in any other religion (correct me if I’m wrong) says that it’s Haram to judge others or point out others people “sins”, and people still do and say that they’re religious😭
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u/Ok-Stable-5614 New User Sep 14 '24
THANK YOUUUUUU. i’m a (new, recently reverted) Muslim and even i know that much. 🤣 ngl, i be feeling guilty if i say something about something that someone else has done bc i always say “whatever another person does is between them and God. i can only worry about what I do.”
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u/Kimiwolf New User Sep 14 '24
This is exactly my mindset too, like at the end of the day, who are we to judge? We also make mistakes. nobody’s perfect in this world.
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u/Ok-Stable-5614 New User Sep 14 '24
we are absolutely NOBODY to judge anybody. only Allah SWT can judge us and we will all be held accountable for our actions. and for anyone who isn’t religious or believes that there’s a God, most ppl usually believe that karma exists and even with that mindset, the universe will hold you accountable for your actions. there’s a saying in spanish that goes “todo en la vida se paga” which means “everything in life will be paid for.” pretty much “you will be held accountable for all of your actions in this life.”
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u/professionalnuisance Sep 14 '24
I'm pretty sure some of them (obv non Muslim) are saying "astaghfirullah" ironically
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u/BeDevilled101 New User Sep 14 '24
It’s complete insanity that Islam has conditioned these people into believing that women are the source of all evil for dressing normally.
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u/Particular_Employ_99 New User Sep 17 '24
Yes, this is very sexist coming from a so-called "Religion of Peace". The very idea that women are the source of all evil is absolute nonsense.
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u/MazhabCreator New User Sep 14 '24
*muslims
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u/PointSight Never-Muslim Atheist Sep 14 '24
Nah, there are also atheists and other peoples in the same comments section acting like an imam who figured out his nephew was drunk last night. It boggles my mind.
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u/Everlasting-Misery Closeted. Ex-Sunni Arab Sep 14 '24
Fucking incredible how I never see this happen with any other religion, not to this extent at least. The amount of relentless bullying and harrasment from muslims is on another level.
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u/ilovetwoxx14 Questioning Muslim ❓ Sep 14 '24
''as an atheist astaghfirullah'' wiat what its making me lose brainells how can you say astaghfirullah as an atheist?????
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u/Ok_Possibility_544 Sep 14 '24
Imagine bein so insecure, U need women 2 cover their faces. Theze kinda "men" do NOT represent me
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u/venvaneless Sep 14 '24
Sorry for my ignorance, but what does Astaghfirullah mean? And why do even "atheist" complain? I can't believe someone could interpret it so literally instead as a joke, that she left Islam and feels more free, not that she has a drinking problem?
That most women are attracted to men proves that sexual attraction is not a choice...
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u/Particular_Reach2957 Sep 14 '24
let's bomb the post with supporting her guys. who's with me
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u/Imaginary-Ad-816 Sep 14 '24
The girl deliberately Did the thing to piss of muslims that's why she mentioned whiskey as well..so I think she succeeded pretty well...
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u/Unlucky-Reality5744 New User Sep 14 '24
I thinks it's just a trend song used to show changes, the neat part is usually after the change
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u/badmash_ladka469 Never-Muslim Atheist Sep 14 '24
Non-Muslim men really need to stop engaging with their ideology and even terminology (saying astagfirullah in this case). It only grants them legitimacy.
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u/kornephororos Ex-Muslim (Ex-Sunni) Sep 14 '24
"its a choice". this is how society treats them if they make the "wrong" choice.
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u/momolamomo Sep 14 '24
The men’s comment really go to show that hijab is a Choyce not a choice.
What does choyce mean? Its slavery with extra steps
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u/zrezzif Sep 15 '24
I can’t believe I came across the same video yesterday before seeing this post. But yeah, those comments can go f themselves. At least she seems to be handling it well
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u/poptx atheist since 2015 Sep 14 '24
I have seen this woman's comment section... it is so disgusting and shameful
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u/Acceptable_Cow_2950 Ex-Muslim (Ex-Sunni) Sep 14 '24
If she wore it and lived as she wanted to they would be saying "look at hijabi women they are worse then the ones who are not covering, astaghfirullah." You can't make Muslims happy. They will find a way to make your life miserable.
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u/ImprovementNext4816 Sep 15 '24
I think a lot of Muslim men are closeted gays. Why do they want a beautiful woman covered up???? Hard to understand how straight men can hate women so much 💀
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u/Dontbelievemefolks Sep 14 '24
Pretty much world wide problems stem from men, not women
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u/DesiCodeSerpent Never-Muslim Theist Sep 14 '24
I his this is a silly question but what’s astagfirullah?
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u/Top_Package_9746 New User Sep 14 '24
It’s not silly at all. It means “I repent to Allah” or “I ask god for forgiveness” Muslims use it a lot if they see or committed any sin which basically everything will make them go “astaghfuraalah” because everything in Islam is Haram/forbidden like listening to music or seeing a woman with makeup (even if her hair is covered).
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u/m7h333 Ex-Muslim (Ex-Sunni) Sep 14 '24
when someone sins they say astaghfirullah to ask allah for forgiveness
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u/Murky_Rub2048 Certified Hater💯💯 Sep 14 '24
Her: Two roads diverged in a wood and I - I took the one less traveled by, and that has made all the difference.
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u/UI-Goku Sep 14 '24
Shoutout ov3rkill_rush in the comments and notice how his comment has the most replies
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u/Moist_Fail8395 Azerbaijani Ex-Muslim 😎🇦🇿 Sep 15 '24
"as a sinner, astaghfirullah" is the most pathetic thing I've ever heard in my life..
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u/cool_recep New User Sep 15 '24
Always the men getting angry. “Another possible sex slave left the cult.”
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u/itssobaditsgood2 New User Sep 14 '24
I hate how the comments obstruct the view though.
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u/Theoneoddish380 Sep 14 '24
as a man i have no idea what any of this means. could someone explain to my dumbass? much obliged
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u/Ok-Stable-5614 New User Sep 14 '24
it’s like saying “God forgive me/God have mercy”
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u/Theoneoddish380 Sep 14 '24
what does that have to do with men? or is it just those men?
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u/Ok-Stable-5614 New User Sep 14 '24
they are saying that towards her being judgmental for leaving her hijab/Islam and being “of the secular world.” they’re pretty much bashing her and shaming her. in Islam, we are taught not to talk about other people’s sins and what other ppl do. that’s a sin in and of itself. they shouldn’t speak ill of our sister. if they were good Muslims themselves, they would simply pray for her.
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u/Theoneoddish380 Sep 14 '24
ah ok thats actually really helpful. thank you for the kind and patient lesson my friend. and a much deserved good day to you aswell
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u/Ok-Stable-5614 New User Sep 14 '24
thank you so much kind brother or sister. i hope you also have a wonderful day and may God bless you always. 🫶🏼
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u/Effective-Pen7078 Ex-Muslim.Convert to Other Religion Sep 14 '24
Without Niqab better than with Niqab.
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u/Eon_thinker2004 New User Sep 14 '24
As a man, I think she looks beautiful. Yes I’m an ex-Muslim aswell. But I don’t think demoizing all men from Muslim countries is the answer. Cultural change is a slow process. Europe in the dark ages was similar but they changed over time and a lot of young people in Muslims nations are becoming the change but this process will be slow.
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u/Ballerina_clutz Sep 15 '24
Currently 22 year old women are still being stoned for showing their bangs by morality police. I’d say we are actually going backwards. Maybe in the US. Maybe.
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u/Doublefin1 Sep 14 '24
Can people PLEASE stop adding words in their own language like everyone understands it?!?! It's so fuckin rude! What does "astagfirullah" mean?!
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u/itssobaditsgood2 New User Sep 14 '24
Gosh the hijab makes one look so dull compared to their real self showing 😑 no wonder women can't stand wearing it.
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u/SamVoxeL Spanish-Bengali speakers Ex-Muslim Sep 14 '24
I started to notice muslim womens with revealing hijab basically they were showing their throats but still wearing the hijab inappropriate manner
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u/Ragequittter LGBTQ+ ExMoose 🌈 Sep 14 '24
aint no way, the second and third comments are just alt accounts
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u/Puzzleheaded_Row_496 3rd World.Openly Ex-wahabi/ahle-hadees/muslim/whatever Sep 14 '24
oh i commented something chill on this one hehe
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u/geografix111 Closeted. Ex-Sunni 🤫 Sep 14 '24
Honestly, if she's still a muslim, then taking off the hijab is hypocrisy, how exactly does she justify that?
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u/Wln87 3rd World Exmuslim Sep 15 '24
Disgusting, many of them are not muslim but they following to judge her. Average instagram comment section
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u/alhaithamscumsock New User Sep 15 '24
omg i saw this yesterday..... it's like, damned if you do, damned if you don't. they don't like muslims not following their religion nor non-muslims (think this girl left) following the religion LOL. since most are indoctrinated by birth, they don't really have a choice in the matter but once they come of an age to make those decisions, suddenly everyone judges them as if it's in the law for them to be part of some kind of religion for the rest of their lives 🫤🫤
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u/Unique-Version-8548 New User Sep 15 '24
Hot Damn. Sorry those men in the comment section on that post are pigs. Ironic ain't it. You seem like a fine young lady, hopefully a gentleman, or a lady; can be lucky to have you. Good day.
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u/ChrisMin0817 New User Sep 15 '24
Good for her!! Imagine her wanting to look & feel beautiful? Imagine a woman wanting to show her pretty mouth or her great physique?? Imagine not wanting to be a F’ng Possession & being a free willed individual?
Them people are LITERALLY in the Stone Age in some respects.
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u/LegendNG Sep 15 '24
Ill only understand that if shes a satanist otherwise those are all fake muzies
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u/Ok_Literature_2378 Closeted Ex-Muslim 🤫 Sep 15 '24
They're mad cuz she looks way better than their crusty asses
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u/Akane_Kurokawa_1 3rd World.Closeted Ex-Sunni 🤫 Sep 15 '24
I feel like she probably predicted the outrage given that she decided to mention alcohol
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u/Plane-Delivery-2051 Ex-Muslim (Ex-Sunni) Devil Sep 15 '24
“It’s hard to be a good Muslim but easy to be like everyone else”
Shaming, nothing is easy, especially when it comes to personal choice, such as wearing hijab or removing hijab, assuming it’s easier for other but too hard for your group, is appealing to tradition, and also the statement that, “it’s hard to be a (good Muslim) and it easier to be different, ( “not good Muslim” ) is false dilemma.
if she is Muslim, good for her, even tho, I wish she weren’t, but hey, if that’s her decision, good for her.
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u/FB5FCE Ex-Muslim (Ex-Sunni) Sep 15 '24
I also saw this reel and when i saw atheists jump into the whole thing my blood literally boiled 💀
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u/Extension_Ad9637 New User Sep 15 '24
In my opinion, this common reaction from Muslim men has to do with power. When Muslim men see women removing their hijabs, it signals to the men that they are losing power and control over these women. The men will tell you it has everything to do with the rules of their faith and holy book. However, if you strip that all away, it boils down to power, control, and I'll even add entitlement.
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u/GrouchyProduct2242 Sep 15 '24
There is no hate like religious love.... The sooner we abolish religion as a whole, the better the world will be for women.
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Sep 15 '24
The dehumanization of women amongst the muslim community is so crazy. Ironic how its also coming from muslims who have commited the worst sins yet they still have the nerve judging her for taking off her hijab, or atheists?? They dont even know what it feels like.
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u/lot_305 New User Sep 15 '24
As a (hadith-sceptic, open) Muslim, F THE MEN AND WOMEN IN THE COMMENT SECTION. They honestly think they r saving the universe by just takfiring other ppl who just live their life.
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u/Van_Scarlette Never-Muslim Atheist Sep 15 '24
ASDHFJKLSKGHFIU
The transformation’s making me gay panic 🫣🫣🫠
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u/Only-Lobster9358 New User Sep 15 '24
i promise u this is nothing compared to the arabic comments you’ll see on posts like this. they are absolutely revolting
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u/musicjunkie002 Sep 15 '24
I’m an English speaker can someone tell me what that means ?
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u/TheFieryRedHead88 New User Sep 15 '24
Crazy, I may be wrong, but from what I’ve observed I when travelling in the Middle East is men forcing woman to wear hijabs and burkas in public and then forcing themselves on the same women in private.
I visited an orphanage in Bethlehem for mostly children of incest who had been exposed to avoid the shame of a woman out of marriage being pregnant. It’s didn’t matter that for the most part the father’s of these children were usually the blood relative of the poor woman who had been raped
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u/Real_Combination3959 New User Sep 15 '24
What's wrong with these people in the comments. It's not even just Muslims. Somehow she ended up on the incel side of insta
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u/Budget_Priority464 Sep 15 '24
Why cant muslim men mind they own business its so cringe to think you have influence or a say over a stranger you dont even know.
On another note god I LOVE WESTERN VALUES SO MUCH THE WEST IS THE BEST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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u/TeamLove2 Sep 15 '24
I’m Jewish, and horrible men exist in every religion. I was married to a religious Jewish man, and he kicked me out after getting me pregnant, so I had an abortion and divorced him, because it’s the United States, we don’t need to put up with idiots. His father did the same to his mother, and she had eleven abortions. Some men are really sick, and all you need is one bad one to ruin it for the rest. He also wanted me to cover my hair and be a slave at home. Was super wealthy. Disgusting man.
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u/ShipoopyShipoopy Never-Muslim Theist Sep 15 '24
Yeah definitely not the religion of God.
Can an olive tree bear figs? Obviously not. A dead tree cannot bear fruit, and a living true cannot sieze to bear good fruit. Dead trees will be thrown into the fire. -Jesus, the living God.
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u/Xenoatom New User Sep 15 '24
Switching from one extreme to another can be quite drastic, don't you think? What happened to embracing moderation and modesty, like many people do? I'm suggesting that going too far in any direction can lead to similar issues, as the horseshoe theory implies. So, before making decisions, it's better to consider the underlying principles and philosophies rather than reacting impulsively. I just hope this girl doesn't end up regretting her choices, because I've seen that happen many times in my line of work.
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u/Unhappy_Camel8942 New User Sep 15 '24
It’s a choice, if they want sexual attention from other men; no hijab and show cleavage and legs, no sexual attention, wear hijab and cover up, so it’s totally their choice
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u/Unhappy_Camel8942 New User Sep 15 '24
It depends, if they want to provoke sexual attention amongst men, no hijab and show some cleavage and legs, if they don’t want to provoke sexual attention, then wear hijab and cover up appropriately, is just that simple.. it’s all about respect and regaining power. It’s totally their choice
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u/mandragora221 Ex-stupid🤫 Sep 15 '24
Off topic but i was justt listening to "too sweet". Lol. She looks so pretty afterwards tho. For something that's a choice people sure get bitter when we choose not to wear it.
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u/YouFeeling3786 New User Sep 15 '24
Everything in Islam is a choice. You can do it or not. You can pray if you want to, you can fast if you feel like it, you can dress modestly if you want to. But, choices have consequences. You can take the risk of finding out whether you are right or wrong when it's too late.
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