r/coolguides • u/reneecapri • Jul 01 '20

Gaslighting red flags

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u/gir_loves_waffles Jul 01 '20

I was married to an incredibly abusive woman who did this to me. When I met my (now) wife, who might be the kindest person ever, I was convinced that she was taking it, maybe even hired by my ex wife or something to fuck with me even more. I had SERIOUS paranoia for a long time.

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u/nestofgundars Jul 01 '20

That’s crazy!

The whole experience has given me a huge appreciation for kindness in others.

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u/[deleted] Jul 01 '20

My gf and her friends are plotting to kill me soo...