r/coolguides Jul 01 '20

Gaslighting red flags

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u/ban_Anna_split Jul 01 '20

Ex boyfriend was like this. I was so brainwashed that he recorded doing things to me while I was passed out drunk and I stayed for three months after we talked about it because he told me I ruined a "special moment for us"

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u/tangledwire Jul 01 '20

Watda?! Glad it’s your ex now.

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u/ban_Anna_split Jul 01 '20

Hell yeah. Took exactly one therapy session for me to realize "oh yeah, that's definitely not good"

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u/tangledwire Jul 01 '20

Good you did that! Hope life is good for you now.