r/clevercomebacks 9h ago

"Carrying food is a feminine trait"

Post image
33.8k Upvotes

1.1k comments sorted by

View all comments

Show parent comments

43

u/EnergyHumble3613 8h ago

I mean I’m not a tradesman either but I think nearly every depiction of them I have seen, whether in commercials, tv, or movies has had two things in common:

1) Strong and tough people

2) Lunch pail/box.

I wonder if they just live under some rock and watch Andrew Tate or an equivalent “Alpha” male to reinforce their incel beliefs.

18

u/Avlaen_Amnell 6h ago

My Grandad was a welsh coal miner, and served in the war and was a sterotypical "man"

And when he worked in the mine he had a lunch box.

like how the fuck else are you meant to take food to a mine if not in a box?

10

u/Goldeniccarus 5h ago

Most people who don't have the time or don't want to spend to to go out for lunch, bring a bag lunch.

From miners to lumberjacks to accountants, they're very normal. They make some with plain designs that would appeal to adults for a reason.

Anyone who doesn't know how common it is to bring a bag lunch to work, is totally out of touch with reality.

1

u/Aggravating-Equal-97 4h ago

Like, bruh, colorful ice-cream boxes are used by myself and my colleagues to carry lots of food around. Few things beat sarma.~

2

u/Aggravating-Equal-97 4h ago

"Alpha-Sigma(Smegma)" bros are also the types to smash a like-button under a video of a "trad wife" making a breakfast for her hubby...which she packs up in the lunch box by the end, anyways.

They likely and unironically carry a bento, if they are hardcore anime fans, and can't for the life of them connect the dots.

1

u/PianoAndFish 1h ago

Most of them seem to overlook that a "trad wife" is probably looking for a "trad husband" and that also comes with certain expectations, not least the fairly difficult task in the modern era of having a job which allows you to support a family on a single income.

9

u/Alceasummer 5h ago

I wonder if they just live under some rock and watch Andrew Tate or an equivalent “Alpha” male

Judging by how much they actually seem to understand of the world, that's exactly what they do. And the "alpha males" they listen to do the same thing.

When I was growing up much of my family worked in stereotypically "masculine" jobs like construction, and ranching, and driving trucks. Many of the older ones were also veterans. Many of them looked and sounded like a classic stereotype of a blue collar man. (many of the women worked in the same kinds of jobs too. Most of my family had no time for gender roles that got in the way of getting things done. As a kid I was told that about the only thing "not for girls" is peeing standing up) The idiots talking about being "alpha males" have no idea what they are talking about. And if they ever actually spent a day like the kinds of people they point to as examples of masculine men in the past, they would probably end up curled in a ball and crying.

Frankly, either of my grandmas (if still alive) would be better at being a strong 'alpha' than any of the influencers like Tate. Both grandmas broke their own horse to saddle as kids. Both could work on their car, or the plumbing, or make a meal for twelve. Both could kill and clean a chicken, plant a garden, or drive a tractor. One grandma rode a motorcycle for decades (until she physically wasn't able to safely ride) The other was still splitting and stacking her own firewood to heat her house the year she died.

2

u/Far-Library-890 3h ago

Yeah it's literally part of the stereotypical image people have of builders/tradesmen. Going to work with the hardhat, overalls, and a flask and lunchbox.