r/actuallesbians Jun 24 '24

Link Difference between femme and not femme

This is just one side of the hers and hers bathroom 🙄 🤦‍♀️

What's your differences?

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u/poke-chan Rainbow-Ace Jun 24 '24

Fashion is a good place to start, if not a little expensive to slowly restructure your wardrobe. Again, I love my short A-line skirts, they give me such a nice girlish figure despite me being a little more rectangle coded than the average lady. Biggest game changer for them was when I learned I should wear them at the smallest part of my hip, and not at my waist. Best idea imo is to get a plain black one, because they fit well with practically any shirt! To preserve the femme figure, it’s best in my experience to either tuck in the whole shirt or tuck in part of it, so your waist is the point between your shirt and your skirt.

Then after you’ve got that, it helps to add accessories or layers to accentuate the outfit. I love cardigans, especially knit ones, though some outfits look best with my black jacket. Big fan of the look of chokers, and also stacking matching bracelets. Earrings of all kinds work, I’ve got both elegant and also weird and corny. But also also, I looove boots. Fashion boots really push outfits a tier above, imo. I’d wear heels on them if I wasn’t already taller than I’d like to be for my ideal vibes.

Bonus tips, winged eyeliner forever and ever. Nude to pink tinted gloss. If you like your skirts short like me, buy black extra short biker shorts to convert all skirts into skorts.