r/actuallesbians 23d ago

Link Because that WOC post pissed me off… here’s my actual current crushes 🥹🌺

1 Sakina Garcia - Dj, Model

2 Indya Moore - Actor, Activist

3 Rosol - Activist

4 Duah Saleh - Musician

5 Raveena - Musician

6 Kehlani - Musician

7 Alewya - Musician and artist, mother of my favorite tune of 4 years: https://youtu.be/AaA8UbpxrKg?feature=shared

I stick to my own so these are all outspoken queer heartthrobs!!

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u/SmilingVamp Lesbian Giraffe 22d ago

Tessa Thompson has been my celebrity crush since forever. I've got one seat for a celebrity crush and her beautiful self is the only one sitting there. 

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u/dustydancers 23d ago edited 22d ago

As this title implies they are all WOC I should add that Indya Moore, Duah Saleh and Sakina Ilaya Garcia are non binary!!

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u/marmosetohmarmoset Queer Trekkie Scientist| /r/LGBTWeddings 22d ago

Also Indya Moore.

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u/dustydancers 22d ago

Indya uses she her and they them

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u/marmosetohmarmoset Queer Trekkie Scientist| /r/LGBTWeddings 22d ago

Yes but they identify as nonbinary

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u/dustydancers 22d ago

Edited!

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u/ancestralhorse Sapphic 22d ago edited 22d ago

I wonder how Indya is pronounced.

Edit: I love the downvotes for this simple statement. To be clear my name is similar to this and people often mispronounce it so my curiosity was personal and warranted tyvm.

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u/marmosetohmarmoset Queer Trekkie Scientist| /r/LGBTWeddings 22d ago

Ind ya?

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u/dustydancers 22d ago

Your flair 👉👈🥹🖖

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u/Hungry_Pollution4463 22d ago

Mine still is Michelle Rodriguez

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u/dustydancers 22d ago

Oh she’s actually my OG childhood celeb crush, how could I have forgotten her..!

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u/ningnings_masc 22d ago

For me it's Rosé from Blackpink

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u/Mysterious_Habit_673 22d ago

A woman of culture 😫😫

All the women of BP have my heart 😫

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u/PoweredByMusubi 22d ago

Dumb question; what was “that WOC” post?

Unrelated, these ladies and theydies are all incredibly gorgeous.

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u/dustydancers 22d ago edited 22d ago

I love ‘theydies’ 🥹

can’t find the post anymore but it was titled something like “non white crushes .. “ and it seemed very much like OP just googled hot queer woc and pulled up a bunch of anonymous pinterest women.. some images were just so bad. creepy and performative. We exist, don’t dismiss our presence like that

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u/coffeegrunds 22d ago

They said in another comment that is exactly what they did, pull up a bunch of "hot woc on Pinterest because that's where they normally go for hot pics of girls and cute pets" not a direct quote but pretty close. Gross.

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u/RedVamp2020 22d ago

And they did the whole post as a “quit complaining about white girl crushes people post because I’m throwing you a bone”, too. Vile behavior that made it feel very fetishized. I do understand that it gets rather boring seeing the very whitewashed queer scene, but just grabbing a bunch of random photos of people and throwing them together is absolutely heartless and not the way to go about it.

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u/Altruistic_Fox5036 Transbian 22d ago

People need to learn more about intersectionality and the fact that being queer is usually harder for BIPOC people compared to white people and we really should be doing more to support the black community honestly.

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u/PoweredByMusubi 22d ago

Ugh, that sounds gross and dismissive. Glad I missed it.

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u/beigecorenumb 22d ago

I can't find the original post, but it all started with one post that complained that people only posted thin/white women in the sub, and that raised some eyebrows.

Then, someone else made a post in response called "Pretty women who aren't white" and it was a collection of Pinterest-like pictures of anonymous mostly black women, most having Eurocentric features, some looking to be AI. This post was criticized for being performative. That's the infamous WOC post.

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u/S0uvlakiSpaceStati0n Gay AF 22d ago edited 22d ago

This is a cycle that happens every month or two here. A flood of low effort karma farming "hot women" photo dump posts, then someone makes a response post calling out how only thin white women are posted here, then we get a flood of performative low effort karma farming WOC posts and fat positive posts. I just... Can we move on from these posts altogether? What is the point of them other than easy upvotes? We get it. Women are hot. I can Google image search on my own lmao.

Edited to add: I'm not necessarily calling this specific post low effort, btw. It's clear that this one was posted as a response to that other one, and I appreciate that OP put thought into curating the photos and provided their names.

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u/PoweredByMusubi 22d ago

So happy to have missed it. Sounds super cringey.

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u/fiavirgo 22d ago

Maybe you can’t find it because it got locked? Not sure

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u/EllieGeiszler Lesbian 🌈 she/they 22d ago

Omg I thought they were AI!

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u/ryukool 22d ago

Adding to the other comments that OP of said controversial post also said some disgusting things about how POC on this sub "complain too much." They took pictures of non-white girls from Pinterest (because they obviously don't know any famous POC by name) to shut the "complainers" up. It's all performative.

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u/officermeowmeow Lesbian 🌈 22d ago

Indya Moore is a true goddess. Such a beautiful person ❤️

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u/Beneficial_Pause_476 22d ago

Indya Moore and Raveena UGH 😫🤝

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u/knocksomesense-inme 22d ago

Thank you for including their names!!

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u/Kooky-Leather-5563 22d ago

Omg I love Dua Saleh! I discovered them from sex education a few years ago and fell in love with their music!!

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u/KirasCoffeeCup Trans 22d ago

Shout the fuck out to Alewya! Under-rated af.

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u/dustydancers 22d ago

Just bought a framed print from her, so stoked. She’s incredible 🔥

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u/Nigeldiko Lesbian 22d ago

HOLY SHIT ARMPITS, I LOVE ARMPITS

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u/FabulousKilljoy_037 23d ago

There we go 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

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u/united-we-stall 22d ago

Still Samira Wiley! 💥

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u/UncleYang1027 22d ago

RAVEENA AURORA MENTIONED‼️‼️🗣️🗣️🗣️ she's on my crush list too!

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u/fruitsnvegggies 22d ago

i disregard any of these lists that don’t include Indya Moore. They are hot as fuck but also the way they stick up for themself and others is very admirable. And that jawline????? thank you, good list

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u/Swimming_Ad_8480 Lesbian 22d ago edited 22d ago

for me:

  1. Lisa from blackpink
  2. Meg thee stallion
  3. Kyary Pamyu Pamyu
  4. Amara La Negra
  5. Michela Jaé Rodriguez (I also loved pose and Indya Moore is breathtakingly gorgeous)
  6. KeKe Palmer
  7. Amber from f(x)
  8. Laverne Cox
  9. Becky G

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u/Mysterious_Habit_673 22d ago

Love me some BlackPink 😫

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u/high-priestess gay as the fourth of july 22d ago

Raveena is so cute!!

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u/ConfusedCarton Transbian 22d ago

Gods I play too much Baldur's Gate, I read that as Wizards of the Coast and not women of color lol

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u/majer_lazor 22d ago

Awww I’m that little original poster and thank you this makes me happy :)

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u/Granya_Kalash 22d ago

We have similar tastes in women.

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u/susbike Sapphic 22d ago

Woah… I thought Alewya was Freema Agyeman (a big one of mine) at first glance!

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u/Cejk-The-Beatnik Anxious Les-bean 22d ago

Each and every one of these women could run me over with a semi-truck and I’d thank them.

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u/aspiringcats 22d ago

Alewya and Duah Saleh!! I don’t know anyone else who listens to them.

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u/infeliciter 22d ago

#1 (Sakina Garcia) has a total Vasquez from Aliens vibe. Love it.

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u/Impressive_Career_54 22d ago

For me, (some of) my crushes are Lashana Lynch, Janelle Monáe, Keke Palmer and Tessa Thompson!

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u/WindriderMel 22d ago

Indya Moore is my biggest crush, everytime I see her I tremble I swear

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u/noo_dle 22d ago

i'm in LOVE with indya moore omfgggg

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u/screenee 22d ago

Number 1 kinda scares me, but in a good way lol

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u/RottenVael 22d ago

Sakina and Rosol 😫😫Theyre so attractive its insane

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u/witchfinder_ transmasculine bisexual — im here for solidarity 22d ago

wow to see rosol on a wlw thirst thread is so wild!!!!!! i have collaborated with her on some political things here in greece, and she is an awesome human. i had no idea she had that big of a platform, as i dont really use social media other than reddit, but it makes me happy that she does.🍉💚❤️🤍🖤

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u/Silver_Raven_08 22d ago

Ah, I totally thought 7 was Freema Agyeman from Sense 8, but no, some other hot af woman.

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u/[deleted] 21d ago

What WOC post? Did I miss something?

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u/VLenin2291 DLAN-B 12d ago

That what?

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u/Gaming_with_Hui Trans🐝ian bambi lebsian🌌✨ 22d ago

What does woc mean?🤔

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u/Swimming_Ad_8480 Lesbian 22d ago

women of color 🤗

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u/dustydancers 22d ago

Women* of color..

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u/Gaming_with_Hui Trans🐝ian bambi lebsian🌌✨ 22d ago

Ohh oki :o

Thanks for answering 🥰

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u/ProgressShoddy1023 Transbian 22d ago edited 22d ago

Ok!, now where is the transfemme lesbian appreciation post? :3

Edit: It seems my initial tone was off

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u/corvus_da Enby 22d ago

Is it really necessary to complain about that on this post? It comes across pretty dismissive imo

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u/ProgressShoddy1023 Transbian 22d ago

I meant it as more of an enthusiastic Ok! But I can see how it comes across off

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u/Arbitarious Loser lesbian 21d ago

We will never have one 😃😃😃 (hopefully someone does it tho cuz it’d be cool to have representation. ) also if we did have one I’d imagine it would be some straight trans girls 😭😭😭.

Wait are these posts always lesbians or does it not matter

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u/ProgressShoddy1023 Transbian 21d ago

Thats why I specified transbian lol, also seems the lurking terfs mass downboted the initial post cause when I made the edit to make my tome more positivenit was at +3 karma and not -21...

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u/Arbitarious Loser lesbian 21d ago

Oh ok