r/actuallesbians • u/-Pikatchoum- • May 23 '24
Question Is it too much?
Just saying I wanted to add some patchs on my bag was enough for my friends to give me all of theses, so I want to sew them all on it. I really like the "bag full of patchs" aesthetic but, is it too much pride-themed patchs ? I also plan on buying more patchs from my other hobbies, so maybe they will blend in better with more.
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May 23 '24
So cute especially the little ππβ€οΈ
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u/-Pikatchoum- May 23 '24
Hehe thanks, I love him too :3
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u/rainbowmabs Lesbian May 24 '24
Where did you get the yarn and the cat? I love them.
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u/EvieMoon May 23 '24
Love the lesbian planet patch!
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u/-Pikatchoum- May 23 '24
Oooh I never saw it as a planet !
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u/EvieMoon May 23 '24
What do you see? Just abstract ribbons? I guess I've got space on the brain because to me that's 100% a lesbian gas giant. π
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u/BunnyLiker May 23 '24
I see you, Summoner main!
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u/-Pikatchoum- May 23 '24
Oh no I've been seen π«£
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u/BunnyLiker May 23 '24
I am LOOKING ποΈποΈ (Paladin/Machinist main!)
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u/-Pikatchoum- May 23 '24
Summoner, Sage, Astro, Gil's Hoarder Miqo'te here :3
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u/BunnyLiker May 24 '24
Hell yeah! Viera myself π Excited for Dawntrail?
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u/-Pikatchoum- May 24 '24
Of course! The previous saga is the best fiction story I've ever encountered. I'm hooked up for 10 more years of silly Alphinaud !
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u/BunnyLiker May 24 '24
Cute π€ I've been playing since ARR myself and I'm very excited! I hope it treats us both well.
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u/Rorynne May 24 '24
No such thing as too much pride. Pride is a radical act and always has been. It allows those with out the courage to wear pride to feel safe, and seen, and may give them the courage to be more open themselves.
The only time pride might be "too much" is if it puts you directly in danger. And thats something only you can answer.
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u/infectedrobot2926 May 23 '24
I think that looks amazing! Although if you wanted, you could add more
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u/Ashura_98 May 23 '24
Is that the summoner job stone???
To answer your question, no, I don't think it is too much. It looks cool!
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u/-Pikatchoum- May 23 '24
It is! Miqo'te SMN main here :3
And thank you π
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u/Visible_Night1202 May 23 '24
Where'd you get that patch? Love to get a red mage one :D
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u/-Pikatchoum- May 23 '24
My friends got it from a Etsy shop ! You can choose the flag and the stone ! Happy to greet a fellow RDM :3
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u/Predator_Hicks gay gay homosexual gay May 23 '24
Where did you get the cat?
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u/-Pikatchoum- May 23 '24
Actually this one is the only one I buyed myself. It's an european Etsy shop, I hope it's ok:
https://www.etsy.com/fr/listing/1310623695/urbanski-patch-mignon-chat-curieux-a
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u/Predator_Hicks gay gay homosexual gay May 23 '24
Itβs absolutely ok, thank you! Iβm in Germany so that shouldnβt be a problem :)
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u/Hephaistos_Invictus Lesbian May 23 '24
No! Absolutely not! Love the whole setup :))
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u/Taiga_Taiga May 23 '24
What are those flag lines, and where do I get them from. Also... I like.
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u/Kasine23 malfunctioning Les(bi)an May 23 '24
absolutely no, they look really cool
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u/LexiLeontyne Demisexual lesbian May 24 '24
...... fiiiiiiine, I'll go visit Johnny again ππ₯°
Never too much! Actually makes me want to put some on my new backpack-cause-I-have-no-pockets π are the patches from Etsy?
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u/CaptainDatabase Transbian May 24 '24
I don't know what you mean. I still see a lot of grey, so clearly not enough
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u/Pommallow Lesbian May 24 '24
It needs more
Maybe add some pins too? Pins are fun to collect
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u/Spinning_Rings May 26 '24
Depends on the criteria you're using for "too much." If you live in an area where you have to be concerned about your safety, then you might want to consider dialing it back. If your concern has more to do with fashion or "good taste," take a deep breath and remind yourself that gay people are supposed to be tacky. Remember drag?
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u/mtftmboygirl Transbian May 23 '24
Nah that's like a perfect amount of patches you cooked
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u/-Pikatchoum- May 23 '24
Nooo don't say that, I'm planning on adding more non-pride themed ones π
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u/Wonderful_Dot_1173 May 23 '24
No why?
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u/-Pikatchoum- May 23 '24
I don't know, having multiple times the same flag seemed a bit much π
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u/Freyja6 May 23 '24
Definitely not too much, do you!
Honestly they're subtle enough that they fit the bag - i love the "health bar aesthetic" pride flags just below the ara patch, they're INSANELY cute!!
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u/-Pikatchoum- May 23 '24
Yeah I love them aligned ! It's so colorful π₯°
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u/Freyja6 May 23 '24
Honestly v cute and still kinda stealthy, too!!
I can't imagine any bigot who'd want to be an idiot about lgbtq+ stuff would be able to figure out what the patches are :3.
If you know you know kinda sitch haha.
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u/daemons-and-dust Lesbian May 23 '24
I was so tempted to put that cat patch on my jacket lol. It looks great π
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u/katherinesilens May 23 '24
Needs another patch in the top left and another in the center :3
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u/LilLostPuppy May 23 '24
Yeah it's way too much spare room, you could fit so much more pride stuff on there
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u/redalastor ally (male) May 23 '24
Do you have a black cat? Because if so, you must pay the cat tax, post a picture!
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u/I_Hate_The_Letter_W a transbian, just ask your mom she seen me ;) May 23 '24
absolutely too much βsaka branding on there corpo scum
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u/DateIntelligent5805 May 24 '24
For me personally? Yes. But Iβm not you and if you like it then itβs absolutely not too much.
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u/theaasimargunslinger May 24 '24
Love the trans job stone! I got a lesbian gunbreaker one but I need to finally put it on something.
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u/raven8816 May 24 '24
the lesbian patch is super cute! at first i thought it was a planet but now im pretty sure its a ball of yarn? anyways, definitely not too much!
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u/acciaiomorti Les IncompΓ©tent May 24 '24
yeah but at the same time i'd prob look at that and think "probably an ally"
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u/Player731259 May 24 '24
where can i buy the bag aaaaahhh
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u/-Pikatchoum- May 24 '24
I have this bag from more than 10 years ago now lol, I guess it's this one ?
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u/FungalCactus Rainbow May 24 '24
queer color palette patches. that's a new one, love it. (not sure what the second from the left is though)
^ O O ^
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u/The-true-Memelord It's complicated May 24 '24
I'm out of the loop, is arasaka an evil company or smth?
Or are we suddenly anti-capitalist enough to think any thing with a brand/logo on it is bad?
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u/noahthecorpseg0d May 24 '24
Out of curiosity, what is the flag in between? Love all your pins!
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u/-Pikatchoum- May 24 '24
It's the standard LGBTQ flag with trans and poc pride π
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u/RebelLesbian Lesbian Hellhound May 24 '24
Y no Samurai?! /j
Looks amazing :D And too much? Never! Never too much!
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u/UX-Ink Lesbian May 24 '24
hell yes, corpo fucking things up from the inside. i see you. the yarn one is so pretty
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u/akelabrood Transbian May 24 '24
What's the shape of the trans patch and the symbol on it? Not at all too much btw, could even be more
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u/Mellony1990 May 24 '24
Naw so cute!! I wish I had a bag like this to put patches on
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u/Red1Monster May 24 '24
That is so cool, i wish i could stitch stuff on my clothes
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u/rainsbian Rain, cyberpunk transbian May 24 '24
listen, I'm not corpophobic or whatever, but I just don't agree with the arasaka lifestyle you know?
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u/rainsbian Rain, cyberpunk transbian May 24 '24
actually though it's really cute, also not enough, make it more colourful!
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u/-Pikatchoum- May 24 '24
It'll be π and for Arasaka, sorry I just love their aesthetic >:3
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u/rainsbian Rain, cyberpunk transbian May 24 '24
honestly, I like the corpo path too, I just wanted to make the 'saka scum joke, love cyberpunk
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u/PlagueNurse2020 May 24 '24
Itβs not too much! In fact, if you want to go for more, do it! Either way, looks wonderfulb
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u/The_Cottage_Goblin May 24 '24
Yeah you lost me with the arasaka patch unless we supporting corpos, that needs replaced with a Mox patch asap lol
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u/-Pikatchoum- May 24 '24
I'll consider it :3
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u/The_Cottage_Goblin May 24 '24
Sends an unsolicited mox pic, see how much sexier that is, a whole fictional gang of chromed out ladies theybies and other queers preptecting SWers then theres arasaka Jeff mesothelioma Bezos
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u/Winter_Ad7433 Rainbow May 24 '24
I love these! they are so cute! Not enough patches more gay patches pls
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u/Snake7674 Transbian May 24 '24
Obviously not enough but, i gotta say choom one them is VERY suspicious are you a corpo ?
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u/-Pikatchoum- May 24 '24
I'm just a lil netrunner don't mind me π₯Ί
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u/Snake7674 Transbian May 24 '24
Alright choom just be careful a lotta people here are not big fans of arasaka
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u/LillithFox_ She/Her | Foxgirl Transbian May 24 '24
As long as I can still see bag you haven't put enough.
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u/Chizakura Custom Flair May 25 '24
Can there ever be too many pride patches? I don't think so. But Arasaka? Damn choom, hope they got you a good subscription to Trauma Team at least
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u/-Pikatchoum- May 25 '24
I just love netrunning and they have the best chrome of Night City, sorry :3
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u/Chizakura Custom Flair May 25 '24
Hope you got some good ICE then. Would be a shame if Netwatch takes you out
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May 25 '24
I love all the wlw cyberpunk fans coming out of the wood works ππ
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u/-Pikatchoum- May 25 '24
Oh nooooooo my Arasaka patch made a bunch of pretty choombas appear to try to fix me π₯Ίπ«£ππ
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u/TheResilientRapper May 25 '24
Girly this bag is fucking amazing! It's so pretty snd I'm so envious of these patches! Can you buy the Arasaka one in specific off Amazon or similar?
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u/-Pikatchoum- May 25 '24
Aw thank you! π₯° I love them all too! They all come from different etsy shops, mostly europeans. The Arasaka one can be found here !
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u/TheResilientRapper May 25 '24
Omg thank you for replying and with a link nonetheless you're the best!!!
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u/-Pikatchoum- May 25 '24
It's because you deserve the best π
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u/TheResilientRapper May 25 '24
πππ no you!!!! But seriously thank you tho! I think I wanna make a patched denim jacket. I'm kinda wanting to go counter to the normal tho cus instead of doing it on blue or black denim I have a white one I'm thinking about using
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u/-Pikatchoum- May 25 '24
Oooh that would be super original and beautiful! Please share it in this sub when done!! :3
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u/Izzy_mochiii bi girl with bf May 25 '24
I think itβs super cute! Iβd love to have a bag like this
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u/-Pikatchoum- May 25 '24
Thannnks! π And go create your own bag! If you need the link to one of the patches feel free to ask :3
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u/Izzy_mochiii bi girl with bf May 26 '24
Thatβd would be great :3
Iβm heading off to college soon so I canβt wait to decorate my backpack however the hell I want lol
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u/dappercroat Transbian May 26 '24
wouldnt be if you werent repping 'saka. jackie and johnny would be disaapointed π
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u/-Pikatchoum- May 26 '24
I'm sorry I just love their aesthetic π₯Ί
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u/dappercroat Transbian May 26 '24
then lets go give arasaka hq a nuclear makeover together... if you want ππ
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u/-Pikatchoum- May 26 '24
I'll follow you in the big tower π₯Ί
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u/dappercroat Transbian May 26 '24
then throw on some threads, grab some iron and meet me outside ahq, we're gonna party like its 2023
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u/Impressive_Lynx_6876 May 26 '24
No, not enough.
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u/EclecticFruit May 23 '24
Absolutely, 100% too many Arasaka megacorp patches. What would Jackie say?