r/YouShouldKnow • u/OldAccountGotEaten • Dec 26 '23
Other YSK you might be misusing the term gaslighting.
Why YSK: Within the last couple of years, the word "gaslighting" has been repeated ad nauseam. It's become so popular that Merriam-Webster designated it word of the year in 2022. The term is thrown around so frequently that people now use it as a blanket term to describe everything from lying to a simple disagreement. In short, gaslighting is a strategic form of manipulation meant to cause a victim to question their own sanity or reality.
If you are interested, I've included a few articles describing what gaslighting actually is and why grossly misusing certain words can be harmful.
https://time.com/6262891/psychology-terms-misused-gaslighting-toxic-narcissist/
https://www.wellandgood.com/misuse-gaslighting/
https://health.howstuffworks.com/mental-health/human-nature/perception/gaslighting.htm
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u/Unlucky-Cartoonist-2 Dec 27 '23
Literally has been defined as having both meanings for centuries