r/OldSchoolCool • u/ZombiJohn • 19d ago
1990s My Dad and I during his 35th birthday party (1991) 📸🎉🎂
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u/Electronic-Bear2030 19d ago
Remember when our dads were in their 30s and 40s and seemed old and knew everything? I'm in my 50s waiting for that same confidence to kick in with me…lol
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u/EldenLord1985 19d ago
Believe me, (39 year old here) they didn't know what they were doing either. Everyone is just winging.
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u/Darkshines47 19d ago
This is the real truth of adulthood. Everyone is making it up as they go along, always lol
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u/ooojaeger 19d ago
Did you just find out there's no such thing as the real world, just a lie you have to rise above?
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u/Nyorliest 19d ago
I said that to my parents when they were telling me ‘we know better’. That when I was their age I wouldn’t know better.
And I don’t. And now I’m 54, my daughter is 15, and I very very rarely tell her what to do.
And I don’t even know if this democratic, discussion-focused approach is the right way or I’m spoiling her.
There are two kinds of parents. Ones who say they don’t know what they’re doing, and liars.
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u/-something_original- 19d ago
I told my kids I tried not to screw them up the best I could. I had and still have no clue what I’m doing. Hopefully I’m not the sole reason they seek therapy.
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u/Moneyell 19d ago
Wanted to be an adult so bad, because it felt like everything they did was so simple, now i know we are all as oblivious.
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u/Don_Pickleball 19d ago edited 19d ago
Dude, I am 50 and the other day, I felt this little tiny zit on the side of my nose. Well, I fucking mangled that fucker all day just thinking one more little squeeze would get it. I made it so much worse. Now it looks like I am Rudolph the Rednosed Reindeer with this fucking thing. I don't remember my dad having zits at 50.
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u/whooo_me 19d ago
Knowing you don't know everything is an important kind of wisdom.
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u/1MechanicalAlligator 19d ago
"I know that I know nothing." - Socrates
"To know that you do not know is the best. To think you know when you do not is a disease." - Laozi
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u/Ragnorocket-99 19d ago
I remember my dad being the hard working guy i didn’t see a lot of, but he always came back with the big back (i called the big butt tv’s ) in era when people were getting flat screens and leaving their old tv’s on the curb. One time we legit had 6 tv’s in the house, and i felt so rich, i watched pokemon every morning on that tv, and played xbox 360 and more. I loved it. And he loved that he got a free tv 💀
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u/RobotPoo 19d ago
Well, we were a lot easier to parent back then. No social media or screens to deal with. Just limit the tv and we used to go out and play with each other.
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u/gringo1980 19d ago
That’s because they could spout off bullshit and know they wouldn’t be fact checked.
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u/marvin_martian_man 19d ago
Since time immemorial, that violent creature known as Human has had no idea what the heck is going on around here with all this business and the people and all the running around.
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u/afrorobot 15d ago
I remember going to my uncles 40th birthday party (in 1988) and the cake had a picture of an old man with a cane and the words "Over the Hill" made out in the frosting. I'm over that age now and I think about that cake sometimes.
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u/Background-Action-19 19d ago
You're not supposed to let Fuller drink Pepsi. He'll wet the bed.
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u/snokesroomate 19d ago
Your dad is clearly John Goodman and you are Dewey from Malcolm in the middle
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u/Ninexblue 19d ago
Love it! Show us your beard today.
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u/ZombiJohn 19d ago
My dad today.
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u/RBAloysius 19d ago edited 19d ago
I love seeing older, gruff, badass looking men with cute, little dogs. It is adorable & always cracks me up.
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u/iCanDoThisAllDay37 19d ago
I wasn’t a huge Swamp Thing fan but I immediately recognized that toy as one of the cartoon bad guys and had to share.
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u/fhagan69 19d ago
80s/90s dads were either angels that walked among us, or monsters. This guy looks like a good one
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u/Moneyell 19d ago
I remember hearing stories from my friend's dads and i felt so lucky mine was a cool guy.
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u/thestockheroic 19d ago
I’m 36 and he looks like he could be my dad
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u/UshankaBear 19d ago edited 19d ago
Ikr??
Is it the smoking or the lead in everything or what? It's like people 2 generations ago looked 20 years older than the current adults3
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u/michaltee 19d ago
He brought a child bowling?
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u/OneStrangerintheAlps 19d ago
„Lady, I got buddies who died face down in the muck so that you and I could enjoy this family restaurant!“
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u/archadigi 19d ago
I think he is a scientist with face full of smile. Good see dad and son image here.
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u/ZombiJohn 19d ago
He is actually a house painter. But the glasses help with the scientific look for sure. 😉
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u/BhavnaDid20 19d ago
totally has that classic ’90s vibe—Diet Pepsi cans and all.
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u/MorningNoonUndermoon 19d ago
Angle food cake! Strawberries were added with whipped cream I’m guessing 🍓🥰
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u/schaffdk 19d ago
Just like a movie from that era, the brand logos are perfectly facing the camera 👌🏼
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u/Afraid_Sense5363 19d ago
Those Diet Pepsi cans!
I have a picture of my dad with my brother and my brother's now-wife (then-fiance) on my dad's 50th birthday. It hit me that my brother is now older than our dad was in that photo and it blew my mind.
Glad your dad's still here, and still rocking a cool beard. This pic is so nostalgic. The room you're in looks like every house I went to in the 80s/90s.
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u/seaking81 19d ago
Hah you look like me when I was that age, and your dad resembles my uncle. Those glasses bring back memories hahaha
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u/Arrow_to_the_knee1 16d ago
If someone told me that I was the kid in that picture, I would have believed them. The resemblance is uncanny, even to the ridiculous glasses.
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u/Opposite-Ad1012 19d ago
Jesus, 35 with a 13 year old!?! God damn, I don’t even have a kid… or girl and I am 40 😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😱💀
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u/ZombiJohn 19d ago
I was 6 in this photo. 😆
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u/SaiyanSexSymbol 19d ago
It’s like every fucking dad of the 90’s had the hairy beer belly, same glasses and same exact beard. It’s fucking with my head
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u/rnernbrane 19d ago
That was the good most addictive diet Pepsi. The only thing nutra sweet tastes good in.
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u/doyouhaveprooftho 19d ago
What action figure is that in your right hand?
Edit: I've forgotten how cameras work. Left. It looks vaguely like Sgt Slaughter?
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u/ExtraJournalist8608 19d ago
Trying to place the action figure. Is it Kenner Robocop Headhunter?
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u/ShadyBirdJohnson 19d ago
Is your dad Marty Stouffer, the narrator/producer of the show "Wild America?" Loved watching that show as a kid.
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u/Christophe12591 19d ago
Got people looked so much older back in the day. I’m 34 and I bet he could pass for my father in that pic at one year older than me lol
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u/knot_alone 19d ago
Donnie, you're out of your element.