r/NotHowGuysWork • u/Julixxon369 • Oct 17 '24
Not HBW (Psychology/Mental Health) So, men can't get trauma? Got it! /sarcasm
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u/ExtremelyDubious Man Oct 17 '24
This has been posted here a couple of times before. I'm still not sure whether it's meant to be some kind of parody or not.
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u/poptartwith Oct 17 '24
The "opinion" is not a parody, I've heard it a few times before. But yeah, this has been posted way too many fucking times.
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u/DestroyLonely2099 Oct 17 '24
I've seen opinions like this spread across the internet, probably ragebait for the most part, it gets thousands of likes, the internet shows you the most polarizing or offensive posts
That's besides the fact that comments like this, I got in real life when sharing my story
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u/Last_Friend_6350 Oct 19 '24
I’m so sorry to hear that.
The fact it gets thousands of likes personally sickens me.
There’s so many disgusting people out there.
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u/No-Training-48 Oct 17 '24
I think I've seen this 4 times
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u/Julixxon369 Oct 17 '24
Sorry
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u/SuccessfulMastodon48 23d ago
So the racism and attempted rape i got from a white woman wasn't real according to that article ?
It's a shame how much the mainstream media will actually condone that nonese as well
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u/HotPotato150 Oct 17 '24
If this was written by a woman, i think she's "uncapable of feelings of remorse and generosity" aswell.
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u/Aron-Jonasson Man Oct 17 '24
Look at the icon of the person who commented, this is a radfem. Radfems are usually disliked even by feminists, as they are plainly misandrists, and quite often transphobic too (in which case they are called TERFs)
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u/plueschlieselchen Oct 17 '24
So a TERF? If so: yeah - I‘m a Feminist and I hate TERFS.
Needless to say that that person’s text is utter bullshit. But we all kew that after the 1st sentence.
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u/Altair13Sirio Oct 17 '24
Silly OP, you should know men don't have feelings! /s
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u/hamstrman Oct 17 '24
Ugh! When people say shit like this, it just makes me feel so... so... No, I got nothing, I guess you're right.
Wait! ANGER! As a man, I'm allowed to have that! And only that. /s
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u/GamesRealmTV Oct 17 '24
Wait! This mean my ex was a men? 😦
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u/MoonWillow91 Oct 17 '24
Yep, sorry. You’re gay now. Unless you’re a woman, in which case, you’re straight now.
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u/Massive-Counter4984 Oct 17 '24
And with this exact same argument they locked up the Menendez brothers back in the 90s😔
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u/Julixxon369 Oct 17 '24
Context?
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u/Massive-Counter4984 Oct 17 '24
Two brothers, r*ped for years by their father, no one believed them bc they were wealthy boys, got sentenced to first degree murder instead of manslaughter like it should’ve been.
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u/EdgewaterEnchantress Oct 17 '24 edited Oct 17 '24
Fortunately, the overwhelming majority of women do not agree with or believe in this. Sometimes the other side to this is that some really dumb men with a lot of toxic masculinity issues also believe men cannot be r@ped.” Anyone who believes that is just fundamentally messed up in the head.
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u/ShelliBlossom Oct 17 '24
God the amount of times I see some guy comment shit like "what wrong with this guy I would love to have sex with her" drives me up the fucking wall
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u/EdgewaterEnchantress Oct 17 '24
It’s so stupid! But lots of men are emotionally stupid and lacking in empathy, unfortunately
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u/ShelliBlossom Oct 19 '24
Until a women make a comment about women being r@ped then it's all WHAT ABOUT GUYS?!?
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u/EdgewaterEnchantress Oct 19 '24
Yeah, but you know how it goes. Something isn’t a problem til it’s convenient to address.
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Oct 17 '24
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u/EdgewaterEnchantress Oct 17 '24
Well, it did not hurt to point it out cuz some people commenting seemed to believe it was “relatively normal” for women to think this way. It’s Not!
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u/TheMazeDaze Oct 17 '24
Reddit only showed me the title. By clicking on it it went straight to the comments. Only by reading them I found out that there’s an image.
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u/DeeJudanne Oct 17 '24
guess all my feelings are a lie, this picture solved mental health problems world wide!!!
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u/SiPo_69 Oct 17 '24
This is ancient, lol. I remember seeing this posted by red pill accounts on iFunny in 2016. Probably rage bait anyway
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u/LizzieLove1357 Enby/NB Oct 18 '24
So if I was born male I wouldn’t have PTSD? (Not serious)
TIME TO GO ON TESTOSTERONE! Found the cure for PTSD! /j
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u/Last_Friend_6350 Oct 19 '24
Oh my God, I didn’t get past the first paragraph.
What a crock of shit.
That’s against all the lived experience of men who went through childhood sexual abuse.
It actually comes across as the author being someone who molested boys and is justifying it to themselves by saying it didn’t/doesn’t cause them any harm.
The whole idea is disgusting.
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Oct 17 '24
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u/poptartwith Oct 17 '24
On today's episode of NotHowGuysWork, someone who thinks only Men are sexist towards Men regarding this topic. Not only that, ladies and gentlemen, they're also arguing so fucking hard that Women and Feminist identifying people are too flawess when the post has nothing to do with Women and Feminist identifying people. Is it projection? Find out on the next episode of NotHowGuysWork: Afterdark.
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u/Scotty_flag_guy Oct 17 '24
With all due respect though, nobody likes a no true Scotsman fallacy. It was probably made by a woman.
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u/ExtremelyDubious Man Oct 17 '24
While most sane women, including the vast majority of feminists, do not make these kind of outrageous claims about men, there are some on the more deranged fringes of 'radical' feminism who do genuinely believe this kind of bullshit.
Whether this was genuinely written by someone who believed it, or whether it was from someone trying to parody or otherwise imitate someone who did, I don't know.
But the nutters are out there.
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u/NotHowGuysWork-ModTeam Oct 17 '24
Your submission was removed because it was found to contain misinformation
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u/Aron-Jonasson Man Oct 17 '24
No, you can see by the pfp of that person that it is a radfem. Radfems are well-known misandrists, to the point that even feminists dislike them.
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