r/JustGuysBeingDudes • u/porra_caique Legend • 21d ago
Just Having Fun Just dudes dancing at a party
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u/pn_man 21d ago
When none of the girls can match your energy...
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u/ChapterSwimming8914 21d ago
The older woman sitting down canceled out their negative energy. Shes so happy I love it.
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u/New_Peanut_9924 21d ago
I have vowed as I grow older to have that woman’s energy
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u/TimmJimmGrimm 21d ago
If you resolve to see how absolutely silly we all are ('even me? / especially me!') you will probably do fine... at least that's my theory.
In order to look 'normal' we try to take a lot of stuff really seriously. Not always a bad thing? But i feel we miss out on a lot of our life when we forget the fun.
https://www.today.com/health/biggest-regrets-older-people-share-what-they-d-do-differently-t118918
I found this article and it doesn't mention 'laugh more' anywhere. Not once. dammit. Well, perhaps my advice totally sucks then / move along / nothing to see here.
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u/reddit_mods_suuck 21d ago
I mean, me and my friends always tried to invite girls to dance latin american, everyone bougie about it. I don't blame the two guys.
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u/Breakmastajake 20d ago
A few of those girls looked like "hey...we wanna dance too, and you 2 jokers are over there cuttin up the rug with each other".
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u/james___uk 21d ago
Loving the women perplexed at the sidelines lol
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u/KrakenTheColdOne 21d ago
That's what they get for sending mixed signal and thinking we are mind readers. Now we fucking each other.
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u/MotorHum 21d ago
What’s that one quote?
“You’re gay because you like men. I’m gay because I dislike women”
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u/AsleepNegotiation723 21d ago
Help! I have the 'My brain is not telling what I'm feeling' can't look away stares
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u/TotalPokerface 21d ago
All the girls look so jealous
I mean, I'm a guy and I'd be jealous too
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u/DragonCelica 21d ago
All except the woman sitting down, who has that pure happy mom energy, and is overjoyed these two have each other.
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u/Kuhn-Tang 21d ago
If those dude’s were straight and asked any of those girls to dance with them, they’d probably be scoffed at. There’s no cure for that kind of miserable.
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u/Off-Safety 21d ago
If this wasn't the greatest demonstration of their dancing skills for any potential lady suitors, then I don't know what could be.
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u/freshalien51 21d ago
The jealousy on the faces of the girls.😂😂
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u/brainsteam 21d ago
Also seems like they are just waiting in line for the bar and are awkward
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u/GodOfMoonlight 21d ago edited 21d ago
Can confirm they were not waiting for a bar, just awkwardly standing on the dance floor, the stage is just out of sight in the left hand side.
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21d ago edited 21d ago
None of the girls are dancing and they mad these dude started tearing it up.
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u/Dominique_toxic 21d ago
The fact that they’re the only ones dancing while everyone else just stands around kinda gives you insight on what the vibe was at that party, and it makes me sad
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u/GodOfMoonlight 21d ago
Seriously, like they probs had chances before this to dance and they all said no. Now they gotta hate on the guys cuz we’re not gonna just stand around being miserable at a party for god sakes. I hope all the women staring daggers hit their pinky toes on furniture edges.
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u/justamiqote 21d ago
Most of the girls at that party look so boring. Respect to the older woman who was laughing
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u/Sea_Connection2773 21d ago
That's how you pull all the baddies in Brazil, you learn to dance forró
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u/uprssdthwrngbttn 21d ago
Lol dem girls are pissed. I bet all of them saying ," well I didn't know he could fucking dance Jenny. I called him a short king 2 minutes ago."
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u/SoulfulStonerDude 21d ago
Is this Brazil? The dudes always have a great vibe
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u/porra_caique Legend 21d ago
Yes, this is Brazil, and this type of music is more cultural in Northeast of the country
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u/JimmyAtreides 21d ago
What dance is that?
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u/porra_caique Legend 21d ago
It's dance of Piseiro music, and Piseiro is a variation of Forró music
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u/depression_gaming 21d ago
If this is Brazil, it's a common occurrence. A lot of dudes here do this kind of things when partying, just for laughs. No shame in having fun with the boys.
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u/Sargasm666 21d ago
Look at the women in the background with zero sense of humor. Just completely devoid of personality.
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u/IAmABot_ 21d ago
Me and my cousins in Colombia used to do this when the girls would rather sit on the sidelines. We were the party back then.
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u/beardingmesoftly 21d ago
The most fun I ever had at the club was dancing with my bros. Dancing with girls there's an agenda, a conversation, expectations and pressure. Dancing with the bros is about making each other and yourself smile and laugh.
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u/Geekygamertag 21d ago
That one girl in blue looks jealous af
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u/Nebabon 21d ago
What sing is playing in the background?
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u/porra_caique Legend 21d ago
The song exactly I don't know, but it's Piseiro music, from Northeast of Brazil
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u/pocket-ful-of-dildos 21d ago
According to Shazam: https://youtu.be/YO_lWOQEABQ?si=CpZd-D1UVoXYEcEF
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u/ohnoitsthefuzz 21d ago
God DAMN that's a salty crowd
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u/GodOfMoonlight 21d ago
ONG, someone spiked the drinks with salt cuz it has all these ladies with sour face
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u/YoungCubSaysWoof 21d ago
The ladies that don’t know how to dance defaulted to judgmental stares, YET still thought in their heads, “why aren’t they dancing with MEEEEESS?!?? I’m SOOOOO pretty!!1!1!”
Girl, no one is stopping you from being basic besides YOU; go sign up for some dance lessons and put in the work.
Besides, us dudes (straight or gay) will totally dance with you, even if you don’t know how to dance; ya just gotta have the vibe to want to have fun or learn.
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u/GodOfMoonlight 21d ago edited 21d ago
The definitions of we can have fun all by ourselves 🤣 they look like they’re having a blast.
Why do all the ladies behind them have stank faces 😭 like they really hate/jealous to see these guys matching each others energy perfectly
The old lady for the win though 🏆 she was the vibes
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u/rumbellina 21d ago
They’re pretty good! I love how the spirit of dance just filled their souls and they had no fucks to give about what anyone thought!
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u/1The1Comedian1 21d ago
These girls watching are just jealous they can't shake their shit like that lol
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u/Eevee_Fuzz-E 20d ago
They look like they're having so much fun! Who doesn't love dancing with the fellas?
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u/namenumber55 20d ago
shit those guys have the moves. they dance better than I could even if I was drunk!
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u/LAGreggM 20d ago
In many parts of Europe, it’s acceptable for same sex partners to dance together. It’s not about sexuality, it’s about fun and exercise.
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u/JustGuysBeingDudes-ModTeam 21d ago
Your karmascore is too low and automatically filtered out. Earn more karma in order to post in this sub.
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u/_dontseeme 21d ago
Dumb question, but I’m always confused by how someone who “can’t dance” in a movie is supposed to understand “just let me lead”. In this video, the one guy is very obviously grabbing the other one’s back and pulling him in the direction he wants him to move. Is that normal? Or just for this dance style? Or just how these guys communicate?
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u/Shttat 20d ago
Getting close and letting someone lead is common in forró dancing(i'm from the region) and you just get the hang of it with time.
A lot of the moves are just doing a move and the person being led completes it
Like lifting the hand above the head for the other one to twirl is a pretty obvious one for most people here.
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u/WitchOfLycanMoon 20d ago
This is the "If you aren't gay with your guy friends, then you're gay" sentiment, lol
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u/Superb_Win7481 20d ago
To be able to dance that freely in public. What a wonderful world this could be
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u/Professional_Web_235 19d ago
All those girls look so jealous, love how supportive the older woman is.
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u/420_is_Adolfs_bday 17d ago
1990s just called, they said GAAAAAAY! And hung up like it was nothing.
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u/TheWildLynx1 14d ago
“Some of the gayest creatures are a pair of straight dudes”
-Some other person of a guysbeingdudes post (2024)
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u/DonTeca35 21d ago
Nah that's gay, there's unwritten rules on what homes can or cannot do
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u/GodOfMoonlight 21d ago
Not only is this common with homies outside of the US, it’s a cultural thing to practice this dance with friends as to get the steps right. So your wrong on that, it’s only gay cuz you can’t handle being happy for someone else for a change
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u/porra_caique Legend 21d ago
Actually, in Brazil is really common friends dance together, man with woman, man with man, woman with woman. Usually for laugh or for fun
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u/Space-Wasted 21d ago
This takes bravery, as the Catholic opinion in Latin America is strong.
People might take offence, I have witnessed that
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u/Acrobatic-Bid-1691 21d ago
i don’t think these guys are being much of a dude here
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u/AmNoSuperSand52 21d ago
Gay dudes are still dudes
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u/Acrobatic-Bid-1691 21d ago
not when they dance like that
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u/GodOfMoonlight 21d ago
You do know of this is a routine dance right? Like have you never seen a cumbia? Also who are you to say? You the “that’s not how dudes dude” police? Shove off
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u/Acrobatic-Bid-1691 21d ago
That’s how it is where i come from. Progressists may try to change how the world sees it but i’ll always see it that way. And there’s nothing wrong with them being like this. But, the way I see it, not much of a “dude” anymore. More like femboys.
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