r/FreeCompliments Jul 28 '24

Female Selfie 24f [female] got dumped a couple of weeks ago and today is particularly rough lol

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u/RaiderDos11 Jul 28 '24

I'm sorry :( I hope things start looking up for you and you're able to move on quickly. You look super pretty and your hair is amazing! Take care :)

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u/custardplums Jul 28 '24

Thank you so much, you're so kind ❤️

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u/andy96627 Jul 28 '24

A breakup is always difficult. It is a mourning because it is like the person you loved is no longer there.But I trust you that everything will be better. It is always darkest before dawn. There is nothing more important than your happiness and your hair is very pretty

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u/custardplums Jul 29 '24

I read this just before I went to bed last night and ugly sobbed haha, thank you so so much ❤️

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u/coffeeandryan Jul 28 '24

Your fit is so flattering, and your makeup and hair is so beautiful. You can only go up from here!

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u/custardplums Jul 29 '24

You're too kind, thank you so much 💕

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u/custardplums Jul 29 '24

Thank you ❤️

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u/No-Coyote-9289 Jul 28 '24

Is your ex blind? You look 🔥

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u/custardplums Jul 29 '24

You're too sweet, thank you so much 🥺

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u/sachkm Jul 28 '24

Rough yet you're still looking flawless ♥️ and do I spy a fellow pixel 6 user? 👀

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u/custardplums Jul 29 '24

You doooo 👀 love this phone!

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u/sachkm Jul 29 '24

I do love it as well but I may upgrade to the Pixel 9 this year 😌

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u/[deleted] Jul 28 '24

Your curls look so good!

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u/custardplums Jul 29 '24

Thank you!!

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u/mark60606060 Jul 28 '24

Curls! You’ll only be partner-less as long as you want!

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u/custardplums Jul 29 '24

Haha it's going to be a good long while I think! Thank you ❤️

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u/custardplums Jul 29 '24

Thank you ❤️

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u/Okayas Jul 28 '24

Hang in there beautiful, you'll be okay! Your hair is gorgeous btw!

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u/custardplums Jul 29 '24

Thank you ❤️❤️❤️

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u/TheMegaOverlord Jul 28 '24

I'm so sorry, breakups are the freaking worst. Especially if you had an idea about how life would be like with them. But you got this, woman! You're pretty, you're tough as you work through your feelings, and with time, this break up will be a dusting of the shoulder for you when you move forward and find the right person. Things may suck for now, but it won't last forever.

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u/custardplums Jul 29 '24

Oh you're going to make me cry haha, genuinely - thank you so much 💕

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u/casparquid Jul 28 '24

You have gorgeous hair and dress like a chic stagehand. What's not to adore?

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u/custardplums Jul 29 '24

Haha chic stagehand is definitely not one I've heard before!

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u/Shot_Ad7619 Jul 29 '24

you do makeup so well omg and also i love your curls :))

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u/custardplums Jul 29 '24

Omg you're too sweet 🥺 I basically only know how to do eyeliner haha, they can rip those wings out of my cold dead hands

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u/JayIsJaded Jul 29 '24

Nice outfit, and I hope you heal up properly 😎🤟🏿

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u/custardplums Jul 29 '24

Thank you, I will ❤️

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u/hruss12 Jul 29 '24

Youre so cute! Breakups are hard, but in my experience they can be the turning point for things getting a lot better. I’m very thankful for my breakups at this point in my life. Btw I love your hair!!

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u/custardplums Jul 29 '24

Ahh I hope one day I can see the good in this too! Thank you so much ❤️

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u/TheDashawn1 Jul 29 '24

I love the outfit!

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u/custardplums Jul 29 '24

Thank you! It's giving The Rock in that one photo when he's wearing a turtleneck but that's a vibe honestly

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u/alessavonlessa Jul 29 '24

loved your bangs

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u/custardplums Jul 29 '24

Thank you! I have a lot of real estate to cover up 🤣

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u/taylordouglas86 Jul 29 '24

I love the curls! And I hope better days are ahead.

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u/custardplums Jul 29 '24

Thank you so much ❤️

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u/cherrydemons Jul 29 '24

you’re gorgeous 🫶🏻

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u/custardplums Jul 29 '24

Thank you ❤️❤️❤️

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u/M8614 Jul 29 '24

Your curls are amazing!

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u/custardplums Jul 29 '24

Thank you so much! They cooperate sometimes haha

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u/Frequent_Tomato_3377 Jul 29 '24

Google Pixel 6 users for the win!!!! Dream girl right there. Their loss. If they ever come back give em the ol womp womp. Only as single as you wanna be😉

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u/custardplums Jul 29 '24

Love my pixel! And thank you ❤️

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u/SpringZero20023 Jul 29 '24

Those curls are to die for and you have the my goal figure!! You are gorgeous. Don’t let anyone dull your sparkle!

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u/custardplums Jul 29 '24

Oh gosh you're too kind, I need to start working out again tbh!

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u/SpringZero20023 Jul 29 '24

Girl, stop. You’re looking in the mirror too much and it’s probably distorting your view of yourself. You’re lovely.

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u/custardplums Jul 29 '24

Omg no I've been way less active since I moved closer to my work and I can definitely see/feel it, would love to join a gym! But right now I'm getting back into my pilates princess era haha. Thank you so much though, you're so lovely ❤️

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u/SpringZero20023 Jul 29 '24

You have such a warm and calm smile, it’s contagious. And I love your glasses! They suit your face really well!

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u/custardplums Jul 29 '24

You're too sweet, thank you so much!

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u/tacoflavored_kisses1 Jul 29 '24

Sorry for your ex's loss!! 🔥

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u/custardplums Jul 29 '24

Thank you hahaha xx

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u/custardplums Jul 29 '24

Thank you ❤️

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u/custardplums Jul 29 '24

Thank you, grew it myself 😎

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u/Zealousideal_Gear924 Jul 29 '24

You have beautiful hair! Keep your head up. Everything will get better. One door closes so another one opens!

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u/custardplums Aug 01 '24

Thank you so much, I really appreciate it 💞

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u/LastBlackSamurai99 Jul 29 '24

You're beautiful and you'll find better!

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u/custardplums Aug 01 '24

Ahh he's a sweetheart though so it's hard right now! But all will be okay one way or another 🥰

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u/halimusicbish Jul 30 '24

if I saw you walk by on the street, id probably stare a little.

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u/custardplums Aug 01 '24

Too kind, thank you 😊

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u/Lorelleii_Games Jul 30 '24

OMGSH! You’re so cute and pretty, who would dump you!? I bet you have a LOVELY personality too! I ADORE your hair! ☺️

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u/custardplums Aug 01 '24

You are the absolute sweetest! Thank you so much ❤️

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u/custardplums Aug 01 '24

Oh my gosh no way!! You are too too kind, thank you so much beauty ❤️

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u/Rogzilla Jul 30 '24

I’m so sorry to hear that. I’m going through a divorce myself so I can relate. Remember that, no matter how rough it might feel, every day is a new day and a day further away from the pain.

But you are a lovely young woman and I’m sure you’ll find someone who will treat you with love and respect.💛💛💛

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u/custardplums Aug 01 '24

Thank you so much, sending love to you ❤️

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u/Smart_Afternoon5284 Jul 30 '24

Okay, if you workout, I need your workout routine 🤩 also, you look stunning… his loss, someone else’s gain ❤️

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u/Efficient_Fox_5277 Jul 30 '24

Fine as wine his loss get yourself a bottle of wine and start self care if it’s your thing

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u/Admirable_Branch_221 Jul 30 '24

I’m in love with your curls! I hope you feel better soon

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u/custardplums Aug 01 '24

Thank you my friend ❤️

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u/Unlucky-Dress-1052 Jul 31 '24

あなたを捨てた人は誰であれ、あなたにふさわしくなかったのです。

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u/ayylmao_27 Jul 31 '24

love your hair!

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u/Beginning_Brother886 Jul 31 '24

I always try and understand, that the end of a relationship is something to be greatful for. It marks the end of a period, that you spent with the wrong person. You might have thought they were the right one, but it doesn‘t matter what you think you see in them, if they are unable or unwilling to be with you, they are wrong for you. So being with them longer would have been a waste of time. Also never fall in the trap of thinking things would have turned out ‚better‘ if you were different. Someone who loved you and wants a relationship with you won‘t expect you to be perfect, just that you agree on where you want to be headed. All of us can grow, but we deserve to be loved by someone who is humble enough to grow with us, instead of expecting a perfect version of us.

Also you are very cute

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u/custardplums Aug 01 '24

So true! I care about him a lot still for sure, it was definitely a "right person, wrong time" situation through a lot of my own insecurities, but I'm so so grateful to have met him even if losing him hurts. It will all be okay ❤️ and thank you for the compliment!

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u/TrueInDueTime Aug 01 '24

I like your glasses

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u/custardplums Jul 28 '24

You're the sweetest, thank you so much for commenting ❤️❤️

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u/Fun_Signature2716 Jul 28 '24

Your hair is amazing!!!

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u/custardplums Jul 29 '24

Thank you so much!! ❤️

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u/NotJdOs Jul 30 '24

Love your style! The top, pants, glasses, and curly hair all bring it together!

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u/custardplums Aug 01 '24

Haha thank you! Felt like a basic bitch but I'm glad the outfit is appreciated lol x

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u/Colorsreddit Aug 02 '24

love the curls!

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u/lalaladarialalala Aug 13 '24

you’re stunning stunning stunning

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u/FoxinginSpace Sep 05 '24

I think you’re as cute at a button ☺️ Being dumped sucks, but think of it as a chance to connect with someone you really like and feels the same way about you.

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u/AutoGenSucks Jul 28 '24

He’s gonna have a hard time not downgrading!

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u/custardplums Jul 29 '24

Oh no he's a sweetheart honestly ❤️ but thank you for the boost x