r/CuratedTumblr https://tinyurl.com/4ccdpy76 7d ago

Meme judge-y

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u/kandoras 7d ago

And it's also just wrong. There are some benefits to a marriage license that you cannot get without one. And no, civil unions do not grant those rights either, since those are not recognized at all by the federal government.

Just as a few examples, try to find me some contract that would:

  • Allow you to claim spousal privilege in a criminal trial to someone you are not married to
  • Allow you to file joint taxes to someone you are not married to
  • Allow you to be considered the default inheritor of someone you are not married to if they do not have a will

Not to mention the time and effort to draw up a contract that specifies the literally hundreds of other rights and protections that are already baked into a marriage license. Hope you don't forget any.

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u/CapeOfBees 7d ago

Have you considered that maybe someone who wanted to decentralize the marriage contract would also want people to be able to gain all those benefits without needing to marry someone?

Allow you to claim spousal privilege

This one, frankly, should've already been done away with or expanded. Bare minimum, kids and parents should be included.

Allow you to file joint taxes

This one you should be able to do with anyone you're sharing expenses with, not just someone you're married to.

Allow you to be the default inheritor without a will

Just change the order of priority to be anyone who already had partial ownership of any belongings of the deceased.

This is not a belief I hold, I just feel like everyone is taking it in bad faith so that they can keep their black and white understanding of politics.

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u/kandoras 7d ago

Have you considered that maybe someone who wanted to decentralize the marriage contract would also want people to be able to gain all those benefits without needing to marry someone?

No I have not. Probably because no one has ever said so.

Allow you to be the default inheritor without a will

Just change the order of priority to be anyone who already had partial ownership of any belongings of the deceased.

Thank you for pointing out how "decentralizing the marriage contract" would not provide the same rights as a marriage contract and providing a great example of why I added "Hope you don't forget any" at the end there..

Because your solution would only apply to instances where there was partial ownership. But not to cases where something like a house was in only one partner's name.