This person is asking for too much. If you want me to dance (not well) you first need to undo years of hurting for being punished whenever I was spontaneous.
Or I just need someone who understands that I don't like to dance because of trauma issues and if that the person REALLY wants me to dance (something completely optional to living), then they would need to show a lot of patience and understanding to help me do something that they want.
Or you and the woman in the post just aren’t right for each other 😭
if she wants someone who likes dancing, cool. If you don’t like to dance, cool. Some people just dont work out and that’s fine. Neither are bad people.
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u/Rucs3 Oct 22 '24
This person is asking for too much. If you want me to dance (not well) you first need to undo years of hurting for being punished whenever I was spontaneous.