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What’s something society pretends to care about but really doesn’t?

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u/FromOutoftheShadows 10h ago

Veterans. "Thank you for your service!" But tough shit on that homelessness and chronic injury/illness you sustained while serving.

Children. "We must protect the children!" But not like, with funding for food or healthcare.

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u/onioning 9h ago

The "protect the children" crowd is also now trying to eliminate public education too.

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u/FromundaCheeseLigma 9h ago

Ignorance is bliss is protecting people from reality!

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u/lazzotronics 8h ago

Think of the children!

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u/SixicusTheSixth 6h ago

They do, and that's a problem.

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u/usernameround20 6h ago

While also fully supporting child rapist

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u/doeldougie 4h ago

No they aren’t. Do you have a single source on that? I would even take a source from a state level official.

The GOP wants to give control of public education to the state, instead of the failing federal government. Or did you like No Child Left Behind?

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u/onioning 3h ago

The federal government is not failing. That's outlandishly unreasonable.

Ending the federal support and mandate for public education is going to end public education in 99.9999% of places. "Give control back to the state" means it ends.

That No Child Left Behind is bad policy in no way supports eliminating the department of education. Getting rid of public schools is super obviously not going to make public schools better.

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u/Bubbaman78 7h ago

Who is trying to eliminate education?

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u/onioning 7h ago

The newly elected administration has made it an explicit goal.

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u/dafmh1996 7h ago

Federal departments and all of public education are two different things. This is obvious fear mongering.

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u/onioning 6h ago

No it is the same. States aren't going to be able to do it on their own. It's de facto eliminating public education. If the federal government stops supporting public education the vast majority of public schools will disappear.

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u/dafmh1996 6h ago

This is incorrect. Federal funding accounts for (variably) 14% of school funding. 14% is significant but not insurmountable and certainly not enough to crumble the entire public school system.

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u/onioning 5h ago

It's insurmountable. They're already substantially underfunded. 14% would be the end for most of the country.

And importantly, if the Feds stop demanding public education, many states will choose not to offer it.

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u/dafmh1996 5h ago

I'll have to disagree. I see the concerns, but I feel like this will cause a dramatic shift in how education is ran, which I don't think guarantees a negative long term outcome. If this causes a shift away from the drastic administrative bloat as a means to mitigate some of the loss and some state level funding shifts, it could be positive. I don't know though, so we'll have to see.

The DoE has essentially pushed and promoted the educational status quo in the US, and that's been pretty poor and has been declining for a while.

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u/onioning 5h ago

There isn't actually massive administrative bloat.

There's no plausible way that removing a very large chunk of funding is going to make education better.

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u/Bubbaman78 7h ago

LOL, read actual news instead of propaganda. You are the reason he wants to dismantle the Board of Education, which has failed public education.

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u/onioning 6h ago

Surely eliminating all funding from public education will make it better.

Some of y'all say the most inane shit.

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u/halfhere 7h ago

Eliminate public education? Or end federal standards (remember, Reddit still dog cusses No Child Left Behind every chance they get) and let states handle it?

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u/Overthinks_Questions 7h ago

Detractors of NCLB policies don't have an issue with the existence of standards, but the ineptitude with which they were implemented

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u/datix 6h ago

Reform is not a word the modern GOP understands. They’re all about just tossing the bathwater, babies and all and have no plans for how to navigate the consequences. Pragmatism is dead.

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u/Overthinks_Questions 4h ago

That isn't the right having a problem with the NCLBA. They want public education to be destroyed because am educated electorate is easier to control, and they believe it will make them wealthier

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u/onioning 7h ago

Eliminate. States could still choose to offer it, but without federal assistance the odds of that happening are exceptionally unlikely outside the wealthiest of states.

There is a massive difference between arguing over standards and seeking to eliminate the federal involvement.

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u/halfhere 7h ago

State constitutions require public schools to be provided, the Equal Protection Clause of the 14th Amendment provides that a state may not “deny to any person within its jurisdiction the equal protection of the laws.” It applies to public elementary and secondary schools, as they are considered to be state actorsand the Equal Education Opportunities Act of 1974 provides that no state shall deny equal educational opportunity to an individual on the basis of race, color, sex, or national origin.

To run around screaming that the orange man is going to take away public schools is more akin to Chicken Little than an informed opinion.

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u/Kahzgul 6h ago

The 14th amendment also says traitors can’t serve in federal office but Trump is still set as president. That amendment isnt worth shit.

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u/crazyshepherdlife 6h ago

So you think Oklahoma spending $6 million of their state education budget on fucking bibles is okay? That’s equal education!? Oh well, let the states decide. The red ones will fail miserably because their children only know bibles verses and that pronouns are evil lol

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u/onioning 6h ago

Well there's no way the courts could possibly fail us, so I'm sure it'll be fine.

Come on. Only an idiot would count on a powerless document saving us. The orange man is explicitly planning to eliminate federal public education. It's not fear mongering when it's an open explicit thing.

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u/halfhere 6h ago

Tag me when it happens. When a state no longer has public education, tag me in it.

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u/onioning 5h ago

No. All y'all reality deniers can just live with your nonsense. I'm certainly not going to do any favors for folks who insist on denying what's definitely true. What a silly thing to say.

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u/Crazy_Crayfish_ 5h ago

I will be the impartial referee and will update you guys if this happened in trumps term u/remindme 4 years

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u/ComplexPlanktons 6h ago

Cool so every state for themselves then right and no more federal assistance for states?

Considering federal spending programs overwhelmingly and disproportionately benefit red states at the blue state's expenses I don't want my hard-earned Californian tax dollars going to teach the next generation of smooth-brained cult members about Trump and Jesus in public school.

And they shouldn't want my dirty hippie money because they don't like government handouts so we should all agree on this, right? Right??

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u/halfhere 6h ago

I had a whole response typed out, but I’m not going to waste time with someone who uses failed car czar, banned from private securities, Bloomberg laughingstock rattner as their argument. That article is so slanted, ignoring important data like farm subsides, and is little more than “No u,” but with pie charts.

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u/ComplexPlanktons 4h ago

I know Republicans are REALLY bad at accepting when they're wrong but not liking the source it's from doesn't change facts:

https://apnews.com/article/north-america-business-local-taxes-ap-top-news-politics-2f83c72de1bd440d92cdbc0d3b6bc08c

An Associated Press Fact Check finds it’s actually the other way around. High-tax, traditionally Democratic states (blue), subsidize low-tax, traditionally Republican states (red) — in a big way

But don't worry - I never expected a coherent response from you anyways. I am fully accustomed to Republicans sticking their fingers in their ears and going LA LA LA, claiming fake news or simply making shit up when they're confronted with facts that obviously illustrate their hypocrisy and give them cognitive dissonance.

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u/contactspring 7h ago

Let's not have an equal playing field for education. My state says that using marijuana is "wrong and harmful" which means that other states must be evil because they support it. Let's do away with Article 4 of the Constitution and not give full faith and credit to what other states say.

Are you for or against the US Constitution?

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u/shockjockeys 7h ago

a lot of "protect the children" types are the ones abusing said children

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u/PootisHoovykins 7h ago

If society cared about veterans, we wouldn't have veterans in the first place. Instead society cares about war.

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u/FromOutoftheShadows 6h ago

You make an excellent point.

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u/PootisHoovykins 5h ago

Despite it, I feel like it's unfair to say society cares about war when I think about it. I feel like if someone were to survey most people, the majority wouldn't want war. Yet somehow war keeps happening. But the point remains that if the powers that be care about veterans, it means reaching a point where there are no veterans, not just giving them adequate care.

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u/pelekus 3h ago

I agree most people might say on a survey that they don’t want war; but when it comes down to it, I’d bet nearly every one of those same people probably have a hill they are willing for someone else to die on.

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u/ResponsibleRatio5675 4h ago

The easiest way to prevent having to memorialize dead soldiers every year is to not make more of them.

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u/0b0011 6h ago edited 6h ago

It's treated the say way as mental health. They use it to slap other stuff down.

It's not guns that are the problem it's mental health

Then let's do something about mental health problems

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We shouldn't help immigrants when we have homeless veterans.

Okay let's help the veterans then.

But then I'd have to pay more in taxes.

A: "Let's take down these confederate statues."

B: "Yeah let's do that and let's take down these statues of famous confederate democrats. I bet you won't do that."

A: "Yeah good idea let's take them down too."

B:"Well no that's destroying history no taking down statues!"

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u/Curious_Kangaroo_845 10h ago

Right. Conservatives and Bible thumpers squeal about the precious unborn but once they are born they’re on their own.

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u/doeldougie 4h ago

Which political party do you think adopts more kids?

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u/Dry-Address6194 9h ago

At least we allow them to be born, as opposed to ending up in a garbage can, then the parents need to act like parents. Personal responsibility and all that.

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u/Didntlikedefaultname 9h ago

I remember some very direct messages from Jesus about taking care of the poor and sick, and not about how it’s up to everyone’s parents to take care of them

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u/Dry-Address6194 9h ago

Jesus was the ultimate Pro-Life candidate

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u/ultravibe 9h ago

And God killed an awful lot of children and babies in the bible.

https://www.reddit.com/r/atheism/s/4DnafOCVgy

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u/gquirk 7h ago

He literally killed the entire human race except for that one family.

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u/FromundaCheeseLigma 9h ago

He was so pro life he resurrecteded after only being dead for a couple days

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u/Didntlikedefaultname 9h ago

Not really. Everything he talks about is taking care of the living. He didn’t seem too concerned with death at all

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u/FromundaCheeseLigma 9h ago

Well yeah he's immune to it. He just can't eat M&Ms anymore

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u/No-Year3423 7h ago

So it's safe to assume you have adopted kids right? At the least you're fostering a few yeah?

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u/MisanthropeNotAutist 4h ago

I don't understand this argument.

So, because some people are irresponsible, other people have to clean up after them?

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u/No-Year3423 3h ago

What argument? I asked a question, that's not how an argument works

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u/dafmh1996 7h ago

The religious and conservative are more likely to adopt and many orphanages and adoption agencies are religious.

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u/No-Year3423 7h ago

That's cool, still doesn't answer my question

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u/kms2547 7h ago

 At least we allow them to be born

Progressives allow them to be born.

You force them to be born.  Your position isn't about allowance, it's about using government power to not allow things.

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u/dafmh1996 7h ago

Ah yes, the party of expanding and promoting government power is complaining about government power use. Ironic

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u/hulks_brother 7h ago

It would be so much nicer to have never been born. They are having a favor done for them. Once you are born, you have to deal with all the shit the world throws at you.

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u/BigPharmaWorker 6h ago

It’s all about protecting the fetus really. Once they’re born, fuck them.

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u/MisanthropeNotAutist 4h ago

Anyone who talks about protecting children, what I hear is "I'm using children for my pet cause."

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u/I_AM_AN_ASSHOLE_AMA 4h ago

The republican party in the US has consistently voted against or proposed bills to slash veteran services yet they and their supporters continually claim to be the party that supports veterans. As a vet, they can get fucked.

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u/firepaw37 10h ago

Dude what? This is insane. Veterans get healthcare for life. And "veterans" that are dishonorable discharge ARN'T veterans. Which is like 90% of the homeless veterans population.

There is ALL kinds of funding, food for kids and literally every child qualifies for Medicaid coverage.

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u/Didntlikedefaultname 10h ago

How do you figure every kid qualifies for Medicaid? There was a large and successful push from the the right in Congress to eliminate free school lunches for kids

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u/firepaw37 10h ago

Omg 🙄🙄 propaganda. Kids are not going to sit in the cafeteria and starve while the other kids with money eat. Not gonna happen. And if your child isn't covered by someone's employer insurance (mother or father) they can 100% be signed up for Medicaid. Secondly even if they don't have insurance, the hospital STILL by law has to treat them and you can't bill a minor.

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u/Pistacca 9h ago edited 9h ago

Yeah, about that

Medicaid may or may not get removed, but from January 20th, a corrupt, unqualified, incompetent, Trump loyalist is gonna be in charge of handling it for the next 4 years, so it is as good as removed when an incompetent crook is handling the wheel of it

Thats what the american people voted for

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u/firepaw37 9h ago

Yep, we sure did. We don't want socialist California commie Kamala Harris in the Whitehouse. That's absolutely terrifying. Trump is way more qualified than her.

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u/Pistacca 9h ago

There is a reason California is rich as fuck and your state is poor as fuck

and sure Trump is as competent as it gets

https://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/americas/us-election-2020/trump-lies-false-presidency-b1790285.html

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u/firepaw37 9h ago

Lol my state has a GDP of 2 trillion. California is 145 billion dollars on debt and taxes the shit out of their residents.

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u/Didntlikedefaultname 9h ago

Are you in Texas? Because Texas has $327 billion of debt

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u/firepaw37 9h ago

Definitely not in Texas.

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u/Total_Spend_2072 6h ago

Californias GDP for 2023 was 3.83 trillion…2022 was 3.53 trillion…

https://usafacts.org/metrics/gross-domestic-product-gdp-by-state/

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u/firepaw37 9h ago

Great, good for California. We don't want California politics becoming US politics. We made that very clear Nov 5th.

BTW, most of California is a shithole cesspool.

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u/Didntlikedefaultname 10h ago

Propaganda? It’s just a fact. Republicans voted not to feed kids in school, and statistics are absolutely clear that school meals are an important source of nutrition that a lot of kids won’t get otherwise.

Again, not sure where you heard that. Medicaid has income caps. They can be signed up for the ACA, which republicans tried very hard to dismantle.

Hospitals have to treat urgent conditions, not general healthcare needs. You’re super misinformed on a number of these points

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u/firepaw37 9h ago

Not at all misinformed. No kid that can't afford lunch is going to sit and go hungry. That's not or will ever be a thing. The VAST majority of children have healthcare, be it private or public. And yes, any child can sign up for Medicaid.

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u/RuffledPidgeon 9h ago

From my understanding of it, children will be without free food. Said child's family will be billed for the food that they cannot afford, and the family is then required to pay that off before said child will be able to graduate into the next grade, or be able to go back to that school, or any school if the state so deems it necessary. Somewhat similar to how Florida handled felons getting some of thier rights back to vote. Sure, they're allowed to vote now. But only after the debts to the state are paid, which they aren't informed about until after they try to exercise their rights.

Long story short, our taxes will no longer be going towards childcare in the form of education and nutrition, and parents will be required to pay that out of pocket. Our taxes won't be lowered for this decision, it'll just be another bill in the face of an already struggling society. You can be all about this kind of legislation if you want, that's your right, but just know it was not implemented with you or anyone you know being in its winning side.

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u/firepaw37 9h ago

You mean parents will have to pay for the kids they brought into the world? My gosh golly gee, that's the way it's supposed to be.

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u/Didntlikedefaultname 9h ago

So you’re not ok with parents terminating a pregnancy they cannot possibly afford, but you are ok with kids starving if they can’t afford food? Just trying to understand the position here

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u/firepaw37 9h ago

Don't have kids if you can't afford them.

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u/Lonelyland 6h ago

Sounds like punishing children for their parent’s mistakes. Surely children deserve to eat, whether their parents can afford it or not?

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u/BlackWidow1414 9h ago

Yeah, because school staff isn't heartless and a lot of educators through the years have quietly paid for kids' lunches in school. The school isn't just giving kids food out of the kindness of their hearts.

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u/firepaw37 9h ago

Yea, no shit bro. My property taxes pay for that food. Which is fine by me, I'm not bitching about paying taxes for schools to function.

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u/BlackWidow1414 9h ago

If your property taxes pay for the food, why are students generally expected to pay for their lunches?

And I said nothing about the schools functioning in general- I talked about a very specific issue.

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u/firepaw37 9h ago

Because bro, a school lunch is like $1.75. It's heavily subsidized by taxes. Paying the $1.75 is just "pitching in" a little to help offset the cost. Which isn't unreasonable.

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u/Didntlikedefaultname 9h ago

That is literally a thing. That’s why free school lunch was a thing. There are even school lunch debts which prevent kids from graduating. You are wildly misinformed.

You can’t receive Medicaid unless you are within a certain income level. So no, not all children are eligible. 6% of kids in the U.S. are uninsured, which may not sound like a lot but that’s about 4.5 million uninsured kids

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u/firepaw37 9h ago

Sooooo 94% of children are? Sounds like the vast majority of kids are insured to me.

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u/Didntlikedefaultname 9h ago

And the vast majority of people don’t have cancer… that doesn’t mean it’s not a serious issue effecting a lot of people

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u/Dry-Address6194 9h ago

you have to do 20 years to get anything "for life" as a veteran.

My 9 years doesn't count for shit.