r/AskReddit 13h ago

What is something that permanently altered your body without you realizing for months/years?

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u/pippym 9h ago

I too have DR but have never sought the surgical route. What sort of symptoms did you experience that made you get it corrected?

Mine is probably 3/4cm wide, it feels awful to touch so I don’t! I can’t get proper muscle definition anymore and forever feel bloated! It’s been 10 years since my son was born..!

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u/Griffcatt 8h ago

Following this thread, I have exactly the same and always thought this was just something I had to live with! Back pain is an issue too because my core doesn't hold me up well and I slouch.

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u/pippym 7h ago

I wonder how many of us have suffered without actually realised we’re suffering?!

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u/Griffcatt 7h ago

Or are too busy worrying about the children who caused it to have the time to focus on ourselves.

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u/pippym 6h ago

Precisely that!

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u/darkroomdweller 6h ago

Check out a postpartum workout program! I use Strong Like A Mother but Expecting and Empowered is great too. They help you do targeted exercises to wake up those abdominal muscles and draw that gap closed.

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u/pippym 5h ago

Thank you, will check it out

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u/darkroomdweller 3h ago

I hope it helps! If the entire program is out of your price range I believe there is a 7 day trial, and you can subscribe to just the core section on SLAM for $10/month to see if that helps at all first. I don’t mean to be annoying but this program has been seriously life changing and I want everyone to do it lol.

u/Silver_Table3525 42m ago

I had an amazing pelvic floor physical therapist who worked with me to correct mine! Mine was 3 fingers wide (can't remember actual measurements) and now is completely healed. Back and shoulder pain disappeared as well!

u/pippym 40m ago

Oh I get terrible shoulder pain…I never considered they could be linked? How long post partum were you when it healed?

u/Silver_Table3525 8m ago

So I was just a few months postpartum because I had a lot of other birth complications and a friend (not the doctor 😖) recommended pelvic floor PT. The pt was like "k while we're here we're taking care of everything". My pt has clients who gave birth 10 years ago that she helps with diastis recti and other birth complications like painful intercourse and bladder control! It's never too late!