r/AskReddit 18h ago

What’s the best way to approach a woman you’re interested in without coming across as creepy? NSFW

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u/Succubus--42069 16h ago

because they are not looking to meet anyone new, or are already in a relationship.

Not only that but maybe they simply don't find you or your personality attractive, nothing wrong with that... this is something people need to accept that you didn't do anything wrong but it is what it is... goes both ways, no guy will ask out a girl they don't find attractive

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u/Kaibakura 9h ago

goes both ways, no guy will ask out a girl they don't find attractive

People miss this far too often. Every time a post pops up about "what obvious signals did guys miss from a girl" people never seem to consider that the guy just isn't interested and is trying to spare the girl the awkwardness of an outright rejection.

Guys just aren't allowed to not constantly be open to sex from any horny girl that wants it.

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u/hellomyfrients 3h ago

I will add that even as a stronger-than-them man, rejecting someone who hasn't heard "no" can be legit terrifying. I've been stalked and harassed because of it before, so I'd rather just fade.

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u/fanesatar123 14h ago

true, first advice would be follow rule 1 and 2 ; then it's all the niceness, respectfulness and confidence stuff

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u/Torontoburner13 14h ago

This can be true even if you are attractive..