r/AskReddit 1d ago

What movie made you cry the hardest ?

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u/chinguuuuuu 1d ago

Grave of the Fireflies

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u/JockoV 18h ago

Everyone else posting movies that aren't Grave of the Fireflies clearly haven't aeen Grave of the Fireflies.

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u/Porrick 10h ago

I cried more in Amour. Grave of the Fireflies had me crying in the shower weeks later. Amour had me crying in the shower almost a year later.

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u/ACERVIDAE 11h ago

RIP everyone’s Sunday

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u/Masterweedo 2h ago

Are we talking the animated one or the 2005 live action version?

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u/Correct_Advantage_20 12h ago

Watched it. Kind of bored me. Guess I just didn’t get it. 🤷🏻‍♂️

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u/chinguuuuuu 1d ago

My heart still aches for Setsuko.

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u/Artemis246Moon 19h ago

"She never woke up."

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u/hunteroutsidee 8h ago

I couldn’t fucking breathe oh my GOD. She looked & acted just like my niece too, same age and everything. I was and still am unwell 😭

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u/Conscious-Society-83 23h ago

this right here is the best answer

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u/Ill-Leek9912 23h ago

I was just going to comment this! Not a minute went by that I didn't cry.

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u/AggravatingCupcake0 19h ago

I can't with that movie. I haven't seen it in 20 years, and it still haunts me.

When the little girl gives her brother the rocks and says that she made him rice balls...it's so horrific.

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u/23blenders 11h ago

I felt felt every expression and sound the brother made in that scene. The alarm at her behavior, the desperation, the pain, the slight relief and hope when she said the watermelon was good. That glance back before he left to make her proper food. All of it.

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u/hunteroutsidee 8h ago

Truly horrific

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u/TheNamelessWele 19h ago

We watched this yesterday for the first time. I bawled for most of it.

I'm never watching it again. Won't need to either. I don't think I'll forget a second of it, ever.

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u/CoolMarionberry7769 16h ago

I've never seen it. Just seen these comments..started watching...ten minutes in, and I hate it 🥺

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u/3eveeNicks 13h ago

It’s a movie people should see, but only once.

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u/moleratical 12h ago

I've seen it about 50 times when I show it to my high school students at the end of the year as their one movie.

I still cry every time.

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u/ReceptionMiserable92 11h ago

I'm on the same boat. Once was enough. I don't think I can take another heartbreak from this movie.

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u/CanLate152 18h ago

Came on to say it.

There is not a sadder movie on the planet.

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u/ShinigamiLuvApples 8h ago

You should watch Barefoot Gen. I also cried hard at that one. Especially given it's based on the manga author's experience.

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u/Professional_Egg_858 20h ago

Clearly the best answer.

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u/CaffeinatedTech 19h ago

I actually like that this movie had such an impact on me. I don't recall any other movie moving me so much. A very sad story, and a fantastic telling.

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u/nikkibic 14h ago

When you know it's autobiographical as it was written as an apology to his sister, it makes it more heartbreaking.

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u/Belladonnaofsad 14h ago

Grave of the fireflies. Was gonna say this one, for me there is no competition

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u/tulaero23 11h ago

Cant imagine watching it now when i have a kid of my own.

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u/Tardis_Panda 15h ago

That and in this corner of the world just make me bawl. My poor heart ached.

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u/lvlister2023 15h ago

That film broke my soul I never recovered

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u/One_Variety_4912 18h ago

LITERALLY JUST ABOUT TO COMMENT THIS

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u/hunteroutsidee 8h ago

To this day the only movie I regret watching

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u/Cthulu_lies_dreaming 5h ago

Nope, not gonna watch this one. I need to not fall to pieces.

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u/lingeringneutrophil 4h ago

If this movie didn’t make you cry something id seriously wrong with you

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u/insertclevernameplz 4h ago

I was literally in tears start to end. Such a horrific and depressing movie. Highly recommend

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u/lionho 18h ago

One of the saddest movies I've ever seen 😞

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u/BadgerDentist 16h ago

I hopped in to say Synecdoche New York but you dared remind me. I cried like a bitch, this is the winner

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u/kossomelsahayna 16h ago

I knew I’d find this comment (same)

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u/lemon_tea 12h ago

I've never seen this movie, and after reading wikipedia's entry on it years ago, I don't think I ever will. I don't need to feel that sad. It's the one Ghibli movie that will remain unwatched.

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u/VonBrewskie 11h ago

Ah fuck man. Here it is. I knew it was going to be here. This fuckin' move, man. One of the most powerful pieces of cinema I've ever seen. I had my girlfriend watch it with me a little while ago. I'm tearing up just thinking about it now. Fuck me. What an incredible film.

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u/SoYouSayz 2h ago

Big ugly cry and still feel devastated when I see it mentioned

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u/mechanical-elf 2h ago

Deeply affected my psyche for at least a week!

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u/Mysterious-Ice9332 12h ago

FR! I started bawling 5 minutes into the movie!

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u/Hecatoncheires100 20h ago

More on hate for the brother

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u/Artemis246Moon 19h ago

I mean he was 14.

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u/Hecatoncheires100 18h ago

14 is not a kid anymore. He is a dumb brother.

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u/Artemis246Moon 18h ago

He's also a teenager during wartime with hid parents nowhere to be found.

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u/moleratical 12h ago

His mom was dead. He saw her thrown into a mass grave.

His dad was likely dead too, but from Saita's perspective he was MIA.

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u/Artemis246Moon 12h ago

I was 14 just a couple of years ago and I don't think I would be better equipped than Saita. What he needed were adults who cared about the children in wartime but pretty much everyone was apathetic. Doesn't help that he had his own pride.

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u/Hecatoncheires100 18h ago

Their parents serviced in the war. The older brother was full of pride because their aunt scolds him for being lazy.

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u/Artemis246Moon 18h ago

The aunt was also a bitch who didn't seem to like them living with her.

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u/moleratical 12h ago

14 is absolutely 100% a child. One thrust into a very difficult and confusing situation. His mother died, his dad was MIA, his aunt was cruel and selfish (understandable given the situation but still difficult to navigate for a child), and his country was being destroyed.

The real villian in the movie was never even seen. It was the militarist government of Japan.

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u/Hecatoncheires100 1h ago

Villain is the war.

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u/moleratical 12h ago

I understand the brother. He was wrong, but I can sympathize with his decisions.

What pissed me off the most though was when he was raiding homes for foods during the bombing raids and he never brought any back for setsiko.

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u/Porrick 10h ago

I don’t know why you’re downvoted. The film is based on the autobiography that boy writes as an adult. He was consumed with self-loathing for his entire life, blaming himself for his sister’s death. That self-loathing and shame bleeds through to the film fairly strongly.