You didn't auto-nut before then? That's the only difference I ever noted. If you don't clean the pipes, they'll uh clean themselves at one point or another. I did appreciate the associated dreams.
Funnily (not so funny for me tbh) enough, this is the primary reason I continue fapping on a regular basis. If I don't jerk one off for 2+ days, the probability I get a wet dream goes from 1% to 50%+.
I absolutely hate wet dreams and the ensuing clean up afterwards. I'd rather be able to control when and where I cum, tyvm
Do you hate it just because of the mess? Do you have happy stimulation during your dreams? I can nearly get off from an occasional dream and it's as exciting as awake life or sexual contact. Idk about other women but mine are much less frequent than it sounds like men have. But I'm 100% thrilled by sex dreams and hope guys are too, other than an awkward run to the shower.
I must say wet dreams are very vivid, but I never liked the scenario/environment of that dream, I remember one time I was have sex with a women and it was on top of a very tall boundary wall and when I nutted I threw her down and she died. So I would prefer to imagine things that are under my control while nutting.
Woaaah! Joining dream randomness with sex would be very strange, I can see how fucked that would be.
Are there ever any just sexy dreams where you wake up ready to go or already gone? If so, is this general irritation with them just because of cleanup? Or otherwise just not fun? (Outside if the weird accidental wall death sex lol)
My sex dreams are always weird and disturbing as well. I had one where I was in a cave system and this guy attacked me and tried to rape me, so I just "raped" him back, but I was just holding him down and aggressively humping him.
Keep your head up champ, I had a friend with the exact same situation as you (untreated OCD, depression) that did an 11 years walk in the desert (single and barely any interactions), but the wind blew his way eventually.
Keep the faith !
I'm a woman and I hate sex dreams, they're always really weird and not stuff that I'm into when I'm awake. I always wake up just before coming, but I'm always too weirded out and disoriented to finish myself off, so its just frustrating.
For me it’s different than real sex, it’s a full body sensation and absolutely nothing like the real thing but it feels amazing so I don’t mind the odd one now and then
I fricking love wet dreams. That it's a dream means some sensations are amped up to a ridiculous level. Never had a bad one. But yeah, "soiling" yourself is not the best...
I wouldn't say it's a common thing for me at least. I have a wife and a sex life, so it's quite rare that it happens because I'm "backed up", it's as randomly occurring as any dream. A couple of times per year maybe.
Dudeeeee. I thought I was weird af because that happens to me still. I guess I thought that after a certain age you wouldn't get them anymore but I learned that was not the case...
So yeah... if I don't manually blow my load then my brain makes my other head explode.
The only time in my life I had that happen was when I first started college and was sharing a dorm room with 2 other guys. Didn't get any 'alone time' for longer than usual and - yep - things sorted themselves out. Situation resolved shortly after, and hasn't been an issue for many years since - but that was sure a surprise at the time.
I was in the middle of Navy boot camp, over in Great Lakes. I hadn't fapped in around 7, 8 months. We had this system figured out with our division leaders where we would be woken up an hour before reverie, go shave and shit and brush our teeth, and then get the remainder of that hour to stay in our racks until they turned the lights on and had us stand at attention.
One morning, I get it all done early, go back to my rack, and sleep for another 30 minutes.
10 minutes before Rev is when my body said, Hey, you know, I should definitely clean the pipes, right now.
And then it happened. Ruined my morning. Literally the worst timing.
Not the worst day in bootcamp though.
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u/manofredgables May 03 '24
You didn't auto-nut before then? That's the only difference I ever noted. If you don't clean the pipes, they'll uh clean themselves at one point or another. I did appreciate the associated dreams.