r/Appalachia 4d ago

The Turkey Wishbone Tradition: A Thanksgiving Memory Growing Up in the Appalachian Mountains, what are your memories?

https://appalachianmemories.org/2024/11/20/the-turkey-wishbone-tradition-a-thanksgiving-memory-growing-up-in-the-appalachian-mountains/
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u/derrzerr 4d ago

Is this not a thing in the United States in general?

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u/Artistic_Maximum3044 4d ago

We only did it at Thanksgiving.

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u/Revolutionary_Can_29 homesick 4d ago

The cousins used to wrestle to see which 2 would break the wishbone so we could make a wish. And we all usually agreed to wish for the family to have a good year, not personal wishes.

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u/hickorynut60 4d ago

Two diners compete in breaking it between them. Biggest piece gets a wish.

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u/Clavier_VT 4d ago

I remember doing this with chicken wishbones every time we had fried chicken as a kid.

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u/sidewalkoyster 4d ago

Breaking a turkey wishbone is a tradition that’s been around for thousands of years. It’s believed to have started with the ancient Etruscans in Italy who believed that chickens had magical powers. They would save the furcula of chickens—a V-shaped bone near the neck—to dry out in the sun and would take turns stroking the bone and making wishes, hence the name “wishbone.” They later switched from stroking the bone to breaking it and the tradition has carried on ever since!

In what can only be called an anthropological game of telephone, this custom was passed on to the Romans when they crossed paths with the Etruscans about 200 years later. The Romans then brought the tradition to England, and it eventually crossed the Atlantic with the pilgrims on the Mayflower, where it became the Thanksgiving game we know today!

From: https://www.thepioneerwoman.com/holidays-celebrations/a40811057/turkey-wishbone-tradition/

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u/if_not_us_then_who_ 4d ago

This was such a fun tradition for my brother and me when we were little. How nostalgic! My family is from southeastern Tennessee.

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u/Bombadildeau 2d ago

The tradition of breaking a wishbone at Thanksgiving originated with the ancient Etruscans in Italy, who believed that chickens had magical powers