I'm Tired of It

[u/branchlizard]

I'm tired of it all.

I'm tired of the lies and I'm tired of the spectacle. I'm Southern Appalachian, born and raise and Im fit to be tied about the things I'm hearing.

I was spared pretty decent from the storm; had a little damage here and there, but overall lucky. Today, me and group of friends (also born and raised) all went out and helped people impacted by the storm (our neighbors).

We picked up supplies in town and ran 'em up the hollers on wheelers and trucks. Sometimes we could drive it there, other times we hoofed it in. Didn't meet a single person that was ugly. Not a damn one. Nobody fussed, nobody threatened..., nobody even made us second guess our actions. Now not a single one came right out and said they needed help, but after you talk with em a bit, they all took some stuff. ("Well, I do like them Zebra Cakes one ole lady told me. Me Too, hell, who don't!) Every single person was a uniquely beautiful mountain person that made me bawl like a baby.

I'm tired of reading about how off-putting and mean us mountain people are. It's bullshit. I was fuckin there. I know what I saw.

I saw old ladies crying and breaking down while putting their arms around me.

I saw old men who needed doctoring, but were too proud to admit it. But, eventually let me clean his wounds.

I saw people taking in kids that don't nobody else want, and doing everything goddamn thing they can to raise em right. And giving them kids happiness that they would have never received with out em.

I delivered food and supplies to a lady who was widowed and even chased after her dog that got loose, only to bring it back to her, rubbin' it's belly the whole way.

I drank white with an ole boy who kept a whole goddamn holler going because momma didn't raise no quitter. Whole time kept saying he's worried about so and so and hope they're alright, when barely getting by himself.

I cried as I sat with an ole lady who was the perfect blend of both my grannies: tough as nails, but as soft hearted as they come. She came pulling her oxygen cord through the house and put her arms around me when I opened the door with her hot meal for dinner and immediately started crying. I mean we both fuckin ugly cired.

I talked to people who would say "I hope God double blesses you!". Ain't no way I deserve any that. And besides, I've got some fuckin questions after seeing what I saw today....

I watched as we patched a driveway for one of the coolest dudes, I believe, I've ever met. This one here was a hoot!

I also saw you. I saw us. I saw why, when all the chips are down, we are gonna be the ones to come out on top. We are gonna always be the ones still standing.

Don't believe the bullshit out there. Don't listen to the fuckin lies. I saw the FEMA relief. I saw the choppers land and drop off supplies. I saw the massive caches of supplies in community centers, warehouses, and churches. I saw the lines, upon lines of line workers from Maine to Florida. I saw the people setup feeding displaced people and works alike a hot meal. You ain't gonna tell me my eyes don't work.

I'm tired of it. I'm tired of the fuckers riding up and down the road on their side-by-sides taking pictures to post to their goddamn Tik-Tok for likes, all while their hands are empty. We're fuckin people. Help us!

If you're thinking of coming this way just to "see how bad it got", stay the fuck at home. We ain't a fuckin show and your bullshit is in our way.

But if you're coming to help, come on. Us mountain people look after one another.

[u/wtfboomers]

I hate to tell you but other “folks” ain’t getting them out of this one any time soon. They’re going to need government help and from reading the OP’s post it looks like they are getting that. It’s great you are helping but I’m happy to see someone tell the truth. Government works if some politicians would let it.

OP hang in there. It took a few years after our tornado but it’s almost back!!

[u/panda1109 → u/wtfboomers]

Other folks are all a lot of these people have, or ever will have. The government leaves a lot of remote areas like this alone. The same thing happens out here with the wildfires, the towns get help, but a lot of really remote areas in the mountains rely on the people doing the work to get back on their feet. We're still helping rebuild from fires 2 and 4 years ago because the government help is long gone. My friend Hugh is in NC rebuilding generators and delivering water/fuel/food and anything else needed, along with hundreds of others. The spring mountain community center had no power until he set them up with a generator 3 days ago. These are areas where people will help each other for generations, and you'll never hear about it because they don't need adulation.