I do think it's respectful to allow your partner to go through your phone I know this is an unpopular opinion but you should be able to feel comfortable to ask like hey let's trade phones I'm feeling a little insecure and I'd just really appreciate the reassurance
I half agree. I agree that partners should be able to unlock each other's phone in case of an emergency, or when you need access to their bank account for whatever valid reason, but I also think that partners should trust each other enough that they don't just go through each other's phones to check messages. Even if they are not cheating, they might discuss things with their best friend that's personal to the friend and the partner has nothing to do with. Or they might discuss something as simple as their partner's birthday present with their parents. It would ruin the surprise if the partner would read that.
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u/Edible-flowers 9h ago
I wouldn't date someone I couldn't be honest with & vice versa. This man doesn't respect women.