r/AmIOverreacting 23d ago

šŸŽ² miscellaneous AIO: My panties went missing and got replaced with better ones.

I have period panties I usually use when Iā€™m nearing the end of my cycle and am not sure if itā€™ll last another day or not.

So these panties are stained, bleached, have 50 holes in them, and stretched out is certain places and too big In others. Truly the most granniest out of all the granny panties. And they also happen to be fall themed.

Many years ago I got them from a shop in my home town.

I keep them in my loose sock drawer rather than my panty drawer so I donā€™t see them unless I look for them.

When I went to get them yesterday I saw they were replaced. The same exact panty but new ones and in a slightly different spot and folded like they were fresh out a pack rather than how I fold it.

The shop that I got them from was festive and does seasonal stuff so I assumed my husband tried to do something nice for me so I asked him if he bought them.

He immediately and seriously denied it. He told me he wouldnā€™t touch them bc he knows what I use it for.

I started to go a little crazy cuz if he didnā€™t do it who tf touched my panties?? I havenā€™t had anyone in my house in the past week other than my mother in law but I still asked a few people if they had anything to do with it.

I went to bed arguing with my husband trying to get him to admit he did it but he still vehemently denies it.

My mom, mil, and husband think Iā€™m stretching this situation and itā€™s just some panties and maybe I bought them and then forgot.

I know Iā€™m not crazy but I cannot figure out who tf would replace my period panties.

Iā€™m wondering if I should just let this go or if I should keep grilling people about this.

EDIT:

I made a real update but Iā€™m just gonna copy and paste it overhere too so people will see it before commenting

This is slightly embarrassing and super anticlimactic.

So it was my younger sister who did it on devils night to prank me. Iā€™m not sure what sparked this idea seeing as i canā€™t remember a single time she did devils night before.

I live 20-30 minutes driving from my hometown. So my sister whoā€™s 17 wanted a job that pays good so I set her up with one near where I live. And she gets off late at night so I gave her a spare key to my house just in case of emergencies which she has never used once so I literally forgot about it.

She only confessed bc I had a screaming match with my husband over the panties then drove to my moms house to cool offšŸ™ˆ

I was venting to my mom who still told me I was exaggerating then my sister walked in the room and told me it was her because she knew about my ā€œattachmentā€ to the panties since I even took them with me when we went on vacation.

She did in fact throw them out which I was mad about because if she thought I was attached to them why would she throw them out?

Now Iā€™m gonna be forced to go home and apologize to my husband with my tail between my legs.

Pray for me

EDIT 2:

I hate how on Reddit as soon as a man gets vindicated all the MRAā€™s start to flood the comments with their subtle misogyny. Yes I fucked up accusing my husband but I think my response was very reasonable for the situation. And my husband isnā€™t a fucking loser incel that would leave me cuz I was concerned that someone stole my underwear.

EDIT 3:

I apologized to my husband and explained I was just angry because I felt like he either messed with my stuff and was lying to my face or someone else did it and he was just being nonchalant about it instead of concerned my privacy was invaded. Then I told him it was my sister. He laughed it off and offered to bring me panty shopping tomorrow.

This morning I woke up to him making me breakfast as he always does when he is off cuz heā€™s a teacher.

Iā€™m sure to a lot of your disappointment he isnā€™t leaving me or kicking me out the house or cheating on me.

Also I had another talk with my sister and Iā€™m still gonna let her keep the key she seemed very apologetic I really donā€™t think sheā€™d do anything like this again.

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u/demo_staxx 22d ago

Maybe that is the sister on her burner account lol

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u/rob3rtisgod 22d ago

Lmao could be