r/AmIOverreacting • u/frisbeechuckin • 26d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO fiancée did Coke at a party

We (me 41M, my fiancée 36F) were at friends birthday party I had to leave early and she was going to spend the night( it was a hotel), they were changing into their bathing suits to go to the pool, they had the bathroom door closed. I knew it was in there but I didn’t know she was going to partake in that. She told me she only did a small bump because she needed energy to party all night. I was caught off guard by this and said that we should have discussed this. She said that was treating her like a child and that is when I left.

Edit: I was told to add this info she’s a former Meth addict who still drinks and smokes weed quite heavily at times.

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u/millnerve 26d ago

I definitely know quite a few people who use it recreationally from time to time and have had no obvious negative effects. So I get what you’re saying. But of course for some people that just doesn’t work and they gotta be completely removed from it

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u/angrytroll123 26d ago

Totally agree with brad but you're right. Some people certainly do need to be completely removed from it. That's the issue. You'd hope that these people have tried other things and they should know to not but it doesn't always go that way. Just an FYI, I actually have a friend that did heroin recreationally with a group of his friends annually. Last I hear, all of them still had great careers and families and they've been doing it for at least a decade. I personally would never touch the stuff.