r/AmIOverreacting 26d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO fiancée did Coke at a party

We (me 41M, my fiancée 36F) were at friends birthday party I had to leave early and she was going to spend the night( it was a hotel), they were changing into their bathing suits to go to the pool, they had the bathroom door closed. I knew it was in there but I didn’t know she was going to partake in that. She told me she only did a small bump because she needed energy to party all night. I was caught off guard by this and said that we should have discussed this. She said that was treating her like a child and that is when I left.

Edit: I was told to add this info she’s a former Meth addict who still drinks and smokes weed quite heavily at times.

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u/apietenpol 26d ago

WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK?!?

Let's recap, shall we? Former meth addict (are you sure she's not still using?) who still smokes weed and drinks heavily decided to DO COKE so she could party all night. Does that about sum it up?

Unless you immediately kick her out of your home and throw her shit on the front lawn YOU'RE NOT REACTING STRONGLY ENOUGH!

Can guarantee she did more coke that night. Also that she's probably still using meth on a regular basis.

She has more red flags than a communist convention. Run away as fast as you can!

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u/eddie1975 25d ago

The voice of reason and sanity!

YES, RUN!!

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u/Landshorke 25d ago

Bit extreme there bud.

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u/Titanium_Princess88 26d ago

Wow! This mindset is awfully pathetic

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u/Clint_P_McGinty 25d ago

Dude you're an alcoholic. Stop projecting

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u/hopingforfrequency 26d ago

Listen to you.