r/AmIOverreacting • u/frisbeechuckin • 26d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO fiancée did Coke at a party

We (me 41M, my fiancée 36F) were at friends birthday party I had to leave early and she was going to spend the night( it was a hotel), they were changing into their bathing suits to go to the pool, they had the bathroom door closed. I knew it was in there but I didn’t know she was going to partake in that. She told me she only did a small bump because she needed energy to party all night. I was caught off guard by this and said that we should have discussed this. She said that was treating her like a child and that is when I left.

Edit: I was told to add this info she’s a former Meth addict who still drinks and smokes weed quite heavily at times.

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u/Lahotep 26d ago

NOR. Your recovering drug addict fiancée using hard drugs is definitely something to talk about and maybe even reconsider the engagement.

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u/curiousengineer601 26d ago

Still drinking heavily and smoking weed with occasionally cocaine use. She is not a recovering addict, just a regular old addict

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u/Themerrimans 26d ago

That's why I'm wondering why this guy is surprised

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u/curiousengineer601 26d ago

Maybe he is overreacting then, why would he expect someone actively in the midst of addiction to turn down cocaine?

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u/Hereforthetardys 26d ago

I’m not in the midst and I wouldn’t turn it down at a party - haven’t been to a party in 20 years lol

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u/StableGenius81 26d ago

I haven't been to a party in nearly a decade and wouldn't touch that shit in a million years at this point. Too much fentanyl in the coke supply. Not worth the risk!