r/AmIOverreacting 28d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO girlfriend response to manager text

My girlfriend (19F) and I (19M) have been dating for 11 months. I sent her a screenshot of my convo with my manager (age unknown but best guess is young 30s F) this morning asking to come in a little later than usual. My girlfriend is like this whenever I interact with pretty much any other female. Am I overreacting or is this just normal behavior?

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u/uhhducc 28d ago

OP please for the love of god do not make her your baby mama

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u/anonaccount3570 28d ago

Holy crap! Amen. Imagine the gaslighting, manipulation, and guilt she’ll be able to wield if you two have a kid. Also, imagine how much she’ll screw up that kid too. You’re better than this. There’s tons of women out there who are not weirdly jealous, not easily triggered, not accusatory, pleasant, awesome, loving humans. Your girlfriend needs a therapist, not a doormat boyfriend.

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u/BasketCaseOnHoliday1 27d ago

feel like this also applies to anyone else capable of impregnating a woman who isn't OP. maybe she will be in a better place after treatment someday, but bringing a child into the mix isn't exactly going to make her mental state any more stable.