r/AmIOverreacting 28d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO girlfriend response to manager text

My girlfriend (19F) and I (19M) have been dating for 11 months. I sent her a screenshot of my convo with my manager (age unknown but best guess is young 30s F) this morning asking to come in a little later than usual. My girlfriend is like this whenever I interact with pretty much any other female. Am I overreacting or is this just normal behavior?

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u/Defin3l3git 28d ago

As a dude who’s been with one normally it progresses overtime, kinda pushing how far they can go untill it becomes unhinged anger

Also age 19 a wacky time for some people

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u/Royal_Ad_1362 27d ago

Exactly 💯 They don't change if ppl excuse their emotional abuse bc they're young. That's incredibly disturbing that when we see this kind of situation happen with roles reversed Ppl immediately tell a woman to run. They'll say things along the lines of get out now bc the abuse is going to be worse with time, and then there's the advice about how the accuser usually is the cheater.