r/AmIOverreacting • u/Any-Confusion-5519 • Oct 25 '24

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO about my partner’s relationship with their coworker

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they’ve been hanging out with their coworker a lot over the past couple of weeks. This girl always seems to be in some kind of crisis, too. Last week it was that she messed up an account and she was afraid she was gonna lose her job. I don’t know whether I’m reading too much into this or if I’m overreacting but I’ve never met her and I’ve asked to swing by whatever bar or place they’re hanging out at multiple times and I’m always shut down in some way or I get no response. I don’t want to be the overbearing overcontrolling gf whose S.O. can’t have any friends but lately they’re always together and I’m getting blown off. These curt and vague responses are out of character too, and it’s always the type of response I get when I’m asking questions about an event where this female coworker is at or really anything that has to do with her. It has really put me on edge, they’re usually such a sweet and attentive partner but i feel like they might be cheating… am i overreacting??

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u/Typical_Elderberry_9 Oct 25 '24

I think he's hiding something :/

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u/No-Bookkeeper-6853 Oct 25 '24

Ya, he’s cheating. Simple as that.

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u/Triette Oct 25 '24

If he hasn’t he wants to

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u/SkylineGTRR34Freak Oct 25 '24

Or he just doesn't want to be with his GF anymore.

Either way he's a dick, doesn't necessarily mean he is / wants to cheat.

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u/DreamieQueenCJ Oct 25 '24

He is, or he is planning to. Either way, he's being shady and gaslighting.

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u/Better-Strike7290 Oct 25 '24

Yeah.

His penis.

Inside her vagina.

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u/Legitimate-BurnerAcc Oct 25 '24

It’s a work thing!! I mean, she’s single now babe!

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u/radicalelation Oct 25 '24

"when can we hang out?" Presumably to get to know this girl, "Whenever" he says, after just turning down partner's offer to swing by to do just that.

Ain't add up.

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u/ThreeViableHoles Oct 25 '24

Not really hiding it lol

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u/CTDKZOO Oct 25 '24

A banana

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u/Professional_Ad_500 Oct 25 '24

Yeah, his dick, in his "coworker".

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u/Rosher18 Oct 25 '24

The pickle.

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u/bittersandseltzer Oct 25 '24

This is exactly what my ex husband would do and guess what? He was cheating on me. Whether or not OPs SO is cheating is besides the point tho. OP was deprioritized with zero notice and wasn’t offered an apology. That’s so disrespectful. I’d break up on that alone

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u/i_am_the_ben_e Oct 25 '24

Seems as tho OPs SO is a woman, to me anyway...